So my lil bro came out the closet Like 8 months ago and now he been datin this dude for like 6 months n he coming around the house all the time now which is cool I don’t care.

The problem is he always lowkey be flirting with me. Like he be makin comments about my ass and complimenting my clothes and makin outta pocket sexual jokes about me. He always trynna get me to drink and smoke with them and I’m just like nah.

Like it was funny the first time but he has been hella extra about it The past couple weeks and It makes me extremely uncomfortable. He always doin it when my bro not in the room too. Like when my bro gets up to go to the bathroom or get a snack is when he chooses to make his comment.

He is coming over tonight and idk what to do. Thinking about talking to him, not confrontationally just telling him he needs to stop. But idk if it will my make my brother mad.

Y’all got any advice on how tf I should handle this?

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UPDATE:
Ight so last night my lil bro invited his bf (let’s call him Parker) over to watch the b-ball games. Which is kinda a big deal cuz watching b-ball (especially nba playoffs) has always been bonding time between me and my brother but they literally be playing every night and he wanted to see Parker so I was cool wit it.

So we watching the raps and Celtics just coolin. My bro was drinkin lightly, just nursing 2 tallboys but Parker somehow got his hands on a pint of Tito’s and was gettin a lil loose but like I said it was pretty chill.....until like mid-way through the 4th quarter.

Idk if the liquor hit him all at once or what but he just started being hella obnoxious. He was being mad loud for no reason, I mean it was a good game but it’s not like anyone was a celts or raps fan. I kept telling him over and over again to stop yellin cuz my parents both go to work maddd early so they in bed by 8:00 PM. He did not gaf and continued to be obnoxious. I finally told him if he ain’t quiet down he had to leave.

This nigga straight up laughed it off and was like “didn’t your brother tell you I’m spending the night”.

I’m like “hell nah you not allowed to stay over”, even my brother piped up n was like “I never said that”.

Parker f***ing erupted. He got sooo f***ing mad. Sayin he couldn’t drive cuz he had been drinking (never stopped him before) and was trynna say he didn’t have another ride. I’m like okay I’ll get your broke ass an Uber rn and told my brother to go wait out front with him. This where everything went down hill.

Me and my bro walk him outside and He was pretty much like wow no need to disrespect me like that I bet you’d let a girl sleep over. I just tell him stfu you too young to be staying over ur bfs parents house. He’s like nah it’s because we’re gay i know it just say it. S*** made me snap I’m like I’ve been putting up with you saying mad gay s*** to me for months and just roll with it idgaf you’re gay.

When I said he was saying sus s*** to me he f***in lost it. He took the empty pint bottle and smashed it on the ground on my driveway. Before I could even say s*** he started screaming at the top of his lungs.

He kept calling me homophobic and a trumper and all sorts of s***. Called me a b**** and a p**** n s***. But worst of all he kept repeating “HOW ABOUT YOU F*** ME IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW HOW ABOUT YOU F*** ME IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW”.

I haven’t even had a chance to order the Uber yet and this kid is just wilding out flailing his arms and screaming at the top of his lungs “HOW ABOUT YOU F*** ME IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW” over and over again in the middle of the driveway. He’s like having my bro fake hold him back while he just flailed his arms above his head screaming. Im not even responding I’m just telling my bro to get the kid to stfu. At this point both my parents are standing at the front door watching like wtf is even going on. Too top it all off Apparently one of the neighbors called a cop cuz after less than 10 min off commotion a cop pulls up and of course now Parker shuts up and starts crying like a b****.

Cops like wtf is going on. He breathalyzed all three of us. I don’t blow anything. My bro blows like a 0.05 and Parker like like a 1.5 or something. His Dumbass ended up getting arrested for public intoxication and was crying the whole time. Not only was he being a b**** but he kept trynna drag my bro down too saying why are you only arresting me we are both underage and both drinking why are you just taking me. The whole time the cop is just ignoring him and talking to my Dad as my dad does his best to explain the situation.

After all that and Parker’s dumbass gets hauled away in the squad car my brother had the nerve to be mad ME. Sayin i instigated and got him arrested. Like wtf it’s not my fault your bf drinks a pint and can’t hold his s***. Not even that much. So I haven’t talked to my bro since last night about anything at all. No clue what happened to his f*** nigga bf. I been out and about wit the homies all day I ain’t gonna be home til later tonight I ain’t even trynna see that nigga rn.

mans tryna turn you out and have a threesome w your bro

just go w the flow and see where it takes you

youre sick

how old is he?

edit: curious cause it could just be his hormones going crazy. when i was young and closeted i f***ing flirted with everyone tbh

Report him to HR op wtf

Dont do anything. Your bro is learning a lesson here. Just ignore it.

You messed up when you made it a joke the first few times tbh. Should’ve cut that s*** from get go

What lesson is his brother learning tho?

This is a KTT1 post

just f*** him

If op get lit off the drank ain’t no telling

Need to see pics of your ass to see why he keeps complimenting it

Probably that he should improve his choice of partners.

Lmao yea but he doesnt even know

Thats what I am saying. Obviously I dont know his brothers bf but there gotta be some red flags somewhere.

sometimes as gay men we can’t help but make jokes about butt regardless of who it is. But the outta pocket sexual joke is a lil sus, along with the fact that a lot of it was when your bro wasn’t in the room. Sounds like he’s being a bit too creepy. You gotta have a talk with him one day to just say you want a little more respect and space between him in a calm manner and hope he listens

I mean talk to him and tell him you don't like him flirting with you and if he don't stop tell your bro. Quite simple to handle

He’s 18