so me and my girl are both working from home, which means we spend most of our days in our apartment. this family moved in next door not too long ago and while they dont bother us with anything most of the time I noticed that the wife/mom (it's a family of two kids hubbo and wife from what I gathered) screams at the top of her lungs at her children almost every single day, especially in the afternoons while we're working

I for the life of me cant imagine not only screaming for multiple days on end, but actually screaming for longer than a few seconds, my head would probably explode. so the fact she is just shouting at her kids day in and day out is f***ing insane to me. but I wonder if yall had similar experiences with neighbors like that

the most obvious thing would be to confront them (I spoke with the husband a few times hes okay) of course, but I wonder if anyone here had the same situation and if yall went around it differently? I obviously dont wanna call the cops and I could also go for simply banging at my wall whenever she gets going to avoid direct confrontation but still let her know we can hear her. the reason I dont wanna talk directly is bc last time I was in a situation like that was back at my parents house and my drunk neighbor attacked my mom so I had to throw a drunk woman from our apartment which wasn't pleasant

but anyways share yall funny stories too!

Y’all gotta start moaning

Didn’t read because you wrote a Harry Potter book in OP. Man up, tell her to ackrite, and s*** the f*** up.

Join in and yell at the kids through the walls too.

Probably a KTT user this place loves child abuse

"hubbo"

d*** her down

Seems like you wanna go an indirect route when the obvious straightforward thing is to just ask her to stop yelling so much

Do it this then — everytime you hear her yelling at the kids, wait 5 minutes or so after she’s done and pretend to have a REALLY toxic argument with your girlfriend VERY LOUDLY. Yell something like “I’m so f***ing stressed between the neighbors next door yelling all the time and you gaslighting me I’m gonna f***ing KMS” “I WILL F***ING CUT MYSELF AGAIN DONT MAKE ME DO IT, THOSE F***ING NEIGHBORS YELLING AND YOU HAVE ME THIS CLOSE”

S***, you might even guilt trip her with leading her to think she’s one you and your GFs triggers.

yell and pretend to shout about the most inappropriate, unsettling s*** — force her to speak to you first about the volume (she’ll be more conscious in turn about being loud/yelling herself).

Mfs get on this site and don’t wanna read

This is the way op

Obviously her hubby ain’t laying it down right

Getting overwhelmed by bebes kids

at my parents crib there’s a BD and BM situation where sometimes the BM gets locked out the house when she leaves late at night and comes back and starts screaming towards the second story window while outside lol

if you want it to stop just threaten to file a noise complaint with whoever is in charge of those apartments. you don’t wanna do anything directly but that’s the only way it will most likely get solved.

at best, she’s stressed out with her kids and needs to be told to take it down a notch, at worst she’s straight up abusive.

eliminate the kids

🤫

did ur mommy help you write these two sentences?

Start yelling at her "OMG STFU " Every time she start going off.

this aint america ppl own their apartments here (cept me of course)

screaming

Don't know why but

this really the solution to anything 😭

y’all are crazy man

I think she's already an aggressive person, I think be definitely direct about it, don't try to talk to the husbbo he won't do s***

Be a toxic bystander for the toxic parents, yell thru the wall "LISTEN TO YOUR MOM SO SHE STOPS YELLING YOU LITTLE TWERP"