also people can have traits that are on the autistic spectrum and not be autistic. you need a certain number of them and a certain level of impairment to be autistic.

just because people dont like looking someone in the eyes, arent as socially intelligent as social butterflies and anxious doesnt mean youre autistic. Some people are just introverts and thats normal

nothing exactly.

I think it's a way a lot of people (obviously there are plenty of genuinely autistic people) don't have to own their personalities

They can be like "well it's because of this" and it's so lame to me

yeah 100%
same with other things too,

like when people say they have adhd instead of confronting the fact that they’re just disorganized and cant focus on doing things they hate anyways.

stuff like that.

but autistic is the most annoying because its the often the most severe impairment of any of it. its annoying it minimzes it.

It's more aggravating with him because growing up he had literally none of the traits he was a social butterfly and loud and confident and no one thought he was off or anything like that

I'm not sure why he's even convinced he's autistic it makes no sense

insano
he even has basic taste in music, which is like the most normie thing ever.

i dont think any autistic people like imagine dragons

tell him he needs to start listening to anima osts with giant headphones in public constantly to sell it more

I try to question him about it a bit but he always treats it as though I'm like not being supportive

But I'm not being supportive because it's not real

ya dont be supportive if its all foolishness

thats the right move

I also just hate his girlfriend

So as soon as something seems like it has her influence I'm like annoyed

She is nice to me but I just can't stand her lol

Which that is probably just hateful and wrong because she hasn't done anything to me

But gosh she's just the worst I can't stand being around her and having her say things

theres something to be said about the vibes of somebody, if u setting alarm bells on in your head and u know your brother better than she does there’s probably a good reason.

like if shes nice no need to be mean to her or anything but I think the supportive thing to do for ur brother is make it known u dont like her to him

I actually went to their house for 4th of july one year and it was them and their friend group they've gathered

And it's the most I have ever drank in my entire life probably

I apparently fell into the pool wasted and I couldn't remember it at all

I'm almost positive I was trying to kill myself because of dealing with her

like my sister’s fiancé, i am so grateful for. hes so funny, ive known him sine i was a teenager he would never ever hurt her, is smart and motivated and hardworking. shes so happy with him, i coudl hang out with him for days and have fun myself.

like theres no doubt there ykwim

this is really funny bruises lore hahahah i love it
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falling into a pool wasted u gotta be sloshed

I was drinking for like 5 hours straight they had these gross cider things and cheap beer and they were concerned that I had a problem

I'm not an alcoholic but I was putting up record numbers I'm surprised I didn't get alcohol poisoning

It's too established of a relationship for that to be fully worthwhile

Would just make things awkward when I have to see them

yeah i mean we all overdo it sometimes. youve said yourself u dont binge dirnk very often. and you also dont eat before u dirnk which is crazy lol

oh ok. im sure he knows anyway. can only lead a horse to water

They might be engaged even

Idk I forgor

i have friends i wish i could chnage in some ways because i DO know better than some things. and they know better than me about some things. but i wish I could get thru to them sometimes.
but i cant it is what it is. its their journey not mine and im not here to ruin something over nothing

I feel like that might be a thing

Id have to ask

if theyre there i mean its his life he in way too deep