Need this asap

yeah I think you won with that

I don’t own any coffee table books I need to step up my game

It has some big names in there like Jack Kirby and art spiegelman

crineee they sell it at walmart
walmart.com/ip/Dril-Official-Mr-Ten-Years-Anniversary-Collection-Paperback-by-Dril-9781724941688/564262814?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=0

I got it on sale from an ollies

They have good books

im in the mood to get some thoughts out

I find the balance of asking people about themsleves and talking about myself hard to walk.

I love when people find something im interested in and ask me about it and let me gush. and I love giving other people that opportunity too. But I want it to be genuine, not flattery.

the balance of getting other people to talk about themsleves and sharing personal antidotes so both parties get the most out of a conversation is difficult to walk.

Ive talked to my friends about this before and they have never considered social interaction in that way.

I did a project on it in art school once.

also how often do you censor your own thoughts.

should you stream of concious whats in your head without being afraid of judgment or be selective with your internal editing?

or what balance of that is the best way to maximize an interaction for both parties.

Oh i’ll let you gush alright

I really enjoy just sitting back with my friends and talking. I feel like im a good conversationalist when im not anxious. I can easily see people or meet new people and talk for 3 or 4 hours and we both enjoy it.

but I still dont think I found the right balance yet

Gushy, gush, so soaky. I put it in, go so deep

It sounds like you don't have a problem and are creating the problem if you can have 3-4 hour convos with people

I think the balance is fine ur being a looneytune

yeah I probably am just overthinking it

it is true I am a certified looney tune

Yes

A 3-4 hour conversation is crazy to me

I have about 15-30 minutes of conversation in the tank before I'm out

i just see some people and their eq is unironically so high, I wish I had their self awareness and overthinking about this stuff seems like a way to develop it. but it probably isnt at all.
its most likely just an insecurity that isnt solved that way

"so into any new music lately"

"I guess"

oh yeah Ill have friends come over and we will just sit on a couch or around a table all evening and do nothing but talk and have a great time.

sometimes we have other things planned but we dont do them because we enjoy the conversation so much

def my favourite hangs!

u have great conversations itt though!!

Yeah but I can choose when to just like take a break

If you pay attention I don't consistently talk about one thing for very long and there are gaps between responses

In person it's horrible sometimes I just don't have the social energy anymore

Just end up telling someone "I don't really like movies" so they'll leave you alone

ya i was thinking that too when i typed it.

it is very different than having a full on conversation irl.
but my point is is that youre still good at long form conversations too, just in a different medium