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  • UncMC 🪕
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    Idk what yall talking about but it looks deep

  • Water Giver

    I don't think they need to be " "kind" ", but like neutral yeah

    I think people that expect a worker to be all smiles n whatever n want them to conversate etc. are also jackasses

    Just don't be a d***head, imo, to me or to the point it's gonna ruin the job

    Exactly

  • UncMC

    Idk what yall talking about but it looks deep

    Just treating people with kindness when they pay u for a service but not being a karen and freaking out when they arent super happy

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    UncMC

    Idk what yall talking about but it looks deep

    Nort too deep tbh just about guys who install trim

  • Bruuiisees

    No I agree with what he's saying

    That is the standard expectation that people have when interacting with each other.

    I disagree with that expectation and would like to see it change though. As long as you aren't harming anyone I don't think you should be paid to deny yourself of sharing your feelings/genuine reactions

    True, same with the customer is always right type of through line

    But yeah I agree, or I guess maybe it's a middle

    I don't think your expected kindness, but there should also be a general baseline

    But the all smiles, them starting a conversation/"check in", or the customer needs to be like patted type of attitude has always been weird to me - or like people that hire a person and then just watch them the whole time, they're doing all this work and you just "lounging" in their face idk how that isnt seen as rude or whatever

    Guess the way I look at it is like with a regular person, nothing else attached, they should feel how they feel as long as it isn't being put on me or taken out on me

    • Overall tho, long as the job is done like it needs and we can communicate what actually needs to be communicated then cool, do your thing, I'm not tryna have you hold me up and I'm not tryna make you my temp puppet
  • For dinner? Its noodles

  • CutiePieHole

    Yea honestly i dont need you being bubbly and NPC like but dont make me feel bad for paying u to help me .

    Faxxx

    And they can express theyre having a bad day, even directly to me +which has happened before), but as long as you're not like putting me as the fault or it's effecting our communication/ the job then overall it's cool

    They can do basic hello I'm here to work communicating while still looking mad or whatever, I don't need them to be a doll, or some 60s idealized worker propaganda compliance

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    Every time I have a worker at my home I just let them, say basic pleasentries, then let them do their thing

    If it's a job thatll take a while I'll just check on em every now and then and ask if everything is cool or if I can do sumn to make things easier or whatever

    Ironically that's usually what will root into a personal convo they'll personally strike up, of me just trying let them be the self by themselves

    Same with store workers or table workers, I'm not making a convo unless they do, im not really doing outside of basic introductory pleasentries

    I don't care how you look, how you act, how you feel as long as it's not taken out on me or of course is a legit detriment to the job at hand

  • rvi

    do u rly think sso

    often

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    CutiePieHole

    Yeah he post in my recent thread that “my gimmick” needs to end. I didnt eveen want to reply i just deleted it because it hurt so bad

    hes envious of how free u r

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    Water Giver

    Every time I have a worker at my home I just let them, say basic pleasentries, then let them do their thing

    If it's a job thatll take a while I'll just check on em every now and then and ask if everything is cool or if I can do sumn to make things easier or whatever

    Ironically that's usually what will root into a personal convo they'll personally strike up, of me just trying let them be the self by themselves

    Same with store workers or table workers, I'm not making a convo unless they do, im not really doing outside of basic introductory pleasentries

    I don't care how you look, how you act, how you feel as long as it's not taken out on me or of course is a legit detriment to the job at hand

    I think it would be fair and it should go in both directions

    The people hiring the people should be allowed to be mean to the worker as well "ok whatever just fix my door" that type of thing

    I think we would all gain strength from not expecting kindness from everyone and learning how to deal with that in a way that doesn't go against the law

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    Kodak Spice

    hes envious of how free u r

    Should i just assume he does not like me? He basically insulted me personality tbh

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    CutiePieHole

    Should i just assume he does not like me? He basically insulted me personality tbh

    i think he has deep self hatred and resentment and he lets it seep out in his negativity

  • page 99915 is wild

  • like we really finna do this s***

  • whats the last argument gonna be about

  • "quit bothering me while I'm working if you want it done right"

    "I don't want to talk to you fix my toilet"

    "I can immediately tell I do not like you"

    These are all examples of dialogue that should not be discouraged

  • Nort 💫
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    TubShart

    Nort too deep tbh just about guys who install trim

    whats happening

  • Kodak Spice

    i think he has deep self hatred and resentment and he lets it seep out in his negativity

    Oh ok well i dont think you should bring others down because of it thats not fair

  • CutiePieHole

    Oh ok well i dont think you should bring others down because of it thats not fair

    facts

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    Nort

    whats happening

    It just auto corrected to nort and I kept it

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    TubShart

    It just auto corrected to nort and I kept it

    oh ok (:

  • rvi 🌵
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    CutiePieHole

    Should i just assume he does not like me? He basically insulted me personality tbh

    maybe he is souring on vz users...im not sure about that guy lately...worried..

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    Nort

    oh ok (:

    Nort

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    nort officially added to the dictionary