i feel you, but at least for me, i try to think that life’s not a race, we all end up somewhere at our own pace. there will always always be somewhere now ahead of you

even if you made 10 million rn, there would still be someone your age with more money. there’s too many people in the world to compete with everyone. we are all at our own pace. you have a masters and that’s a huge w in itself. congrats fam

anyone itt turn 30 yet? what did you do for your 30th?

my 30th was some weeks ago, and it was kinda whack tbh. i had 2 friends come visit and we went to dinner but then everyone passed out at like 12 and i was the only 1 up all my friends either have kids or are married and get tired mad quickly now a days

makes me feel bad when i see others turn 30 and they have these big gatherings

but i mean we lived a lifetime in our early 20s so i guess i’m making it up now by having a quiet life but still

was hoping to go into my 30s with more of a bang

I count my days alive , today is 10984

I git friends I celebrate interacting with for the first tone and iPhone photos does a lot of the rest in terms of I can search any day including today and it will show me everything I was ever doing on this day

honestly i don’t celebrate any other anniversary’s besides my birthday and my anniversary with my SO. but this is a good idea, i think i am going to start doing this. gives a reason to celebrate/reflect/something to look forward to

That’s an interesting perspective; I’ll be at 9490 days on June 19th.

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life's a marathon vro never forget that, i'm graduating this year and i'm 28.

I don’t even be celebrating my birthday like that no more, after 21 it just been meh. I celebrate my work anniversaries though, and I’m going to start celebrating Pride month.

Helps keep things in perspective at all times . I got a minute counter too . The idea came from those in AA how they count days off d**** . I’ve wished I was never born before and tried to call a hitman on myself was on Silk Road and googling it it was cheaper . Consideee jumping in front of train due to losing. 4K scholarship . 100k in college debt that goes to my mom or I die but I’m here typing this because I never stopped

Anybody got kids itt? I kinda want kids now after not for the longest, but like you have to find a partner that has themselves together or getting to a place where they’re together and whose ideology matches up with yours, which I think is really hard these days.
This year I’m going to have to actually start trying to look for people I want to be with rather than just going out meeting someone and that be all there is to it.

i don’t, but i’mma want some soon. the problem is, i love doing what i want too much. once you have a kid everything is for them

anyone else feel like they lost like all their friends?

i moved away from my friends like 7 years ago and work remotely and don’t have an opportunity to make new ones

all my old friends are now married or have kids or too busy with their jobs and they still are close with each other but i’ve grown apart

feel like i have no one but my gf for real

f*** getting old

Yea, this is why I keep going back and forward on wanting kids. I know I'm selfish still and when you have a kid at least at the start a lot of your time goes to them.

Lost contact with my HS friends when I went to a whole other state for college, then lost my college friends when I again moved back to a whole other state after college. I think I'd be able to meet new friends where I'm at now maybe.

I work remote too, but I think if I join in some activities around where I'm at I can meet some people.

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Exactly it started when I was like “ when am I going to turn over 9000”

LMFAOOOOOOO real then all them folks do is talk about their kids and wives like YouTube and art can’t coexist with the nuclear family they’ve created . I like being able to shoot the s*** with anyone be myself and aura attracts the right people

Having kids? In THIS economy?

You’re better than me Mike.

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I feel you, I be thinking though. It'd be so precious seeing a mini me running around playing with my nephew and s***.