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  • Sep 9, 2021
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    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

  • Sep 9, 2021
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    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    I would say this. I noticed you posted here or elsewhere about what haircut u should do. I always liked the last one with the side bang or whatever you call it.

    Youā€™re not with her, her attraction to you doesnā€™t matter and honestly people can say whatever mean things they want when they donā€™t care about the consequences of your feelings or how it affects your relationship. I would say I find you handsome. But Iā€™m a dude and I find a lot of people pretty in their own way. She might have said that depending on how things ended, or maybe thatā€™s how she really felt. Doesnā€™t mean itā€™s correct. Regardless, try not to base that aspect of your confidence on one persons opinion, since theirs billions of people out there. Hopefully this is not affecting your overall confidence because we are all more than how attractive we are and how elusive that is to pin down for some.

    I would maybe put the idea out that itā€™s not going to be a net positive to be comparing yourself to her new partner, regardless of whether or not you are more handsome or whatever other interchangeable attribute. Him and whoever comes after him, if that happens.

  • Sep 9, 2021
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    Phlegm

    I would say this. I noticed you posted here or elsewhere about what haircut u should do. I always liked the last one with the side bang or whatever you call it.

    Youā€™re not with her, her attraction to you doesnā€™t matter and honestly people can say whatever mean things they want when they donā€™t care about the consequences of your feelings or how it affects your relationship. I would say I find you handsome. But Iā€™m a dude and I find a lot of people pretty in their own way. She might have said that depending on how things ended, or maybe thatā€™s how she really felt. Doesnā€™t mean itā€™s correct. Regardless, try not to base that aspect of your confidence on one persons opinion, since theirs billions of people out there. Hopefully this is not affecting your overall confidence because we are all more than how attractive we are and how elusive that is to pin down for some.

    I would maybe put the idea out that itā€™s not going to be a net positive to be comparing yourself to her new partner, regardless of whether or not you are more handsome or whatever other interchangeable attribute. Him and whoever comes after him, if that happens.

    thank u! I mean it hurt because it came from her, but sheā€™s the only person Iā€™ve been romantically involved with for the last 6 years so I never really worried about my appearance. When the only person who was involved with you romantically says that, it really takes a toll and it made me genuinely question my appearance and just made me feel super ugly and insecure.

  • Sep 9, 2021
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    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    fam youā€™re far from ugly if thatā€™s really you at the top, just donā€™t engage in her petty s*** anymore and move on.

    also if thatā€™s her new guy at the bottom then she downgraded big time anyway

  • Sep 9, 2021
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    lucky star

    thank u! I mean it hurt because it came from her, but sheā€™s the only person Iā€™ve been romantically involved with for the last 6 years so I never really worried about my appearance. When the only person who was involved with you romantically says that, it really takes a toll and it made me genuinely question my appearance and just made me feel super ugly and insecure.

    I guess leave it to other people to let you know wether or not they find you attractive. There are things you can do to help that of course.This doesnā€™t mean someone will be knocking down the door to date you or sleep with you. But thatā€™s ok. šŸ‘

  • Sep 9, 2021
    rustcohlestan

    fam youā€™re far from ugly if thatā€™s really you at the top, just donā€™t engage in her petty s*** anymore and move on.

    also if thatā€™s her new guy at the bottom then she downgraded big time anyway

    i didnā€™t want to call the other dude ugly cus itā€™s not his fault he got used by this person to demean someone else but lol brief and to the point

  • Sep 9, 2021
    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    You look better than her new dude but it donā€™t matter if she wit him and not you. Work on yourself and stop cryin about this girl who done left you several months ago at this point.

  • Sep 9, 2021
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    Phlegm

    I guess leave it to other people to let you know wether or not they find you attractive. There are things you can do to help that of course.This doesnā€™t mean someone will be knocking down the door to date you or sleep with you. But thatā€™s ok. šŸ‘

    Yeah I really hate making fun of peopleā€™s looks bc they canā€™t control it and the dude has no idea whatā€™s been going on lmao, but her saying that was confusing. Itā€™s had me to the point to where I avoid walking past mirrors some days to avoid seeing myself.

  • Sep 10, 2021
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    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    no you're not

    start lifting and get into lifting culture get jacked as f***

  • Sep 10, 2021
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    aaron xx

    no you're not

    start lifting and get into lifting culture get jacked as f***

    I started going pretty consistently about 2 months ago. Iā€™m only 5ā€™7ā€ so Iā€™m afraid to bulk up without looking like big ed

  • Sep 10, 2021
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    lucky star

    I started going pretty consistently about 2 months ago. Iā€™m only 5ā€™7ā€ so Iā€™m afraid to bulk up without looking like big ed

    as long as your eating a slight surplus of calories you won't get fat

    you're already lean so the likelihood of it happening is low anyway

  • Sep 10, 2021
    aaron xx

    as long as your eating a slight surplus of calories you won't get fat

    you're already lean so the likelihood of it happening is low anyway

    Yeah Iā€™ve been trying to hit a surplus. Lots of peanut butter lmao. The only downside is I usually gain weight in my face/neck before anywhere else :/

  • Sep 10, 2021
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    Live from Tampa earlier šŸ¤˜šŸ½

  • Sep 10, 2021
    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    Crine you look MUCH better than her new man anyway, like the other user said at end of the day itā€™s her loss :kanyesheug:

  • Sep 11, 2021
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    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    noooooo ur so sexy so hot i would totally bang u over ur ex new boyfriend nooo

  • Sep 11, 2021
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    Jbreezyondeck

    Live from Tampa earlier šŸ¤˜šŸ½

    Ik u went home hurting

  • 8J6 šŸ¤“šŸ¼
    Sep 11, 2021
    bossyyyyy

    Ik u went home hurting

    Tom Brady

  • Sep 11, 2021
    bossyyyyy

    Ik u went home hurting

    Got to see the GOAT at least

  • Sep 11, 2021
    PainPapi

    noooooo ur so sexy so hot i would totally bang u over ur ex new boyfriend nooo

    Canā€™t tell if irony post or

  • Sep 11, 2021
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    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    You already asked this a few times, Iā€™ll keep it real with you. It doesnā€™t matter, your appearance is what it is.
    What are you even trying to get out of that question? Feel bad if I tell you you look ugly? Feel better if I tell you you look good? Why did you even post the new bf of your ex?
    Like multiple people told you on here, in almost all your threads: work on your self.
    You and her new bf are equally attractive.

  • Tomorrow šŸŖ„
    Sep 12, 2021
    lucky star

    Alright, genuine questionā€¦.
    Am I ugly?? I went through a rough breakup where my ex said Iā€™m too ugly to ever do better than her and that has lowkey ruined me. She also said sheā€™s more attracted to the new guy than sheā€™ll ever be to me

    https://imgur.com/a/nTyURfW

    bonus: pics of her new guy
    https://imgur.com/a/67rGT8N

    Definitely not ugly in the slightest lol she was just saying some s*** to get under your skin

  • Sep 12, 2021
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  • proper šŸ”©
    Sep 13, 2021
    Innocent

    You seen the wire?

    You kinda look like the dude who played bubbles.

    type beat