I've been Bi since 12-13 but fought against it until I was 24 and going through a lot mentally.
This month will make 3 years since I came out and I'm so much happier with myself than I was before, especially once I dropped Christianity and eventually got into Traditional African Religion.
As for sexuality, I'm more romantically interested in Women (as far as settling down, marriage, etc.) but sexually I don't discriminate, you just have to have a vibe/energy about you that attracts me.
I've been Bi since 12-13 but fought against it until I was 24 and going through a lot mentally.
This month will make 3 years since I came out and I'm so much happier with myself than I was before, especially once I dropped Christianity and eventually got into Traditional African Religion.
As for sexuality, I'm more romantically interested in Women (as far as settling down, marriage, etc.) but sexually I don't discriminate, you just have to have a vibe/energy about you that attracts me.
Good luck with things in the future, it's great you're much happier now
Good luck with things in the future, it's great you're much happier now
Thanks.
My experiences have given me a huge respect for giving people the space to come to the realization of their truths and presenting that to the world.
Straight People will say "just come out, everybody knows" or things of that nature, or at worst they will out you before you are ready to be outed, but they don't realize that often times, coming out is like shedding the skin of the old you, and it's almost like killing the version of you that you, your Parents, and society have created, to allow your true self to live and breathe.
In the city I live in right now, so many down low Men have been getting exposed on social media, so my thing was that if I was going to be outed, I wanted to control the narrative and dictate how that information gets out.
Overall, my Mom was supportive, nobody has said anything negative other than my Father's Mother (not purposely negative, but she's a hardcore Christian so she will never accept that part of me and I'm fine with that).
What really surprised me is that my biological Father was the first person to reach out to me to send me his love on Social Media when I posted it. He didn't care at all and still accepted me, so despite the wrongs he did (he was a deadbeat growing up), I will always have love for him for that.
I feel you man, id just say keep experiencing both sexes and see what you like and donāt like. Thereās no need to rush to put yourself into some category
How u meet gay people
I still haven't found the correct answer to this question.
I love my boyfriend a lot, but sometimes I miss the attention I would get on Instagram, Grindr, etc. And the thrill of hookups. My confidence definitely used to be higher.
But I'd still choose him over that.
I love my boyfriend a lot, but sometimes I miss the attention I would get on Instagram, Grindr, etc. And the thrill of hookups. My confidence definitely used to be higher.
But I'd still choose him over that.
Lol Iāve literally downloaded Grindr just to get notifications to pop up all the time
Also just played with the guy Iām dating this morning after sleeping over and couldnāt get myself to c***again even though he blew me so good. Kind of embarrassed and also not sure if I like him like that or just filling a void
I canāt find anymore fun in hooking up. Maybe I said this already. I hooked up with a random person a couple weeks ago. Itās just not exciting anymore. Deleted Grindr. The app and my profile.
I canāt find anymore fun in hooking up. Maybe I said this already. I hooked up with a random person a couple weeks ago. Itās just not exciting anymore. Deleted Grindr. The app and my profile.
ngl i wanna try grindr but im afraid its just gonna be tops and old dudes
I canāt find anymore fun in hooking up. Maybe I said this already. I hooked up with a random person a couple weeks ago. Itās just not exciting anymore. Deleted Grindr. The app and my profile.
I deleted it a while ago for the same reason. I got bored of the hook ups and majority of people on the app are using it solely for that reason. It felt awkward meeting up with people that way and I couldnāt get used to it. It may be picky but itās just not the way I wanna meet someone.