My stupid self agreed a couple days ago to smoke weed today with two classmates of mine. I told myself I'd only take two hits. Today came. I'm a man of my word, so I wasn't gonna back out last minute. Got carried away and took more hits than planned. All because I wanted validation from them. Validation for what? Being able to inhale?

I smoked weed many times before, but I told myself I'd get out of that life and never do it again.

These guys aren't even cool. They find their instant gratification and call it a day.

Feeling so much remorse now because I'm nauseas. Thought it was the hunger making me feel this way since I didn't have real food the whole day, but I think the weed had something to do with this. Being high isn't fun.

This isn't an anti-weed thread. It's simply a reminder to be yourself and never seek validation from others. It's not worth it. I struggled with this for way too long, but I think I finally got it down.

I need validation from women though so I can feel manly

i struggle with this too. i feel like it gets better as you get older. hang in there g.

I didn’t quit until I had a savage panic attack

As far as validation, you got to slow down before you say yes to anything. Also be confident in your own life game plan so you know what fits in it and what does not

Thanks, man. I don't even know why I felt the need to impress them. Not like they're cool or successful. They have nothing to do except that.

Maybe I'm going through that at the moment. The physical fatigue isn't fun either. I just know I'm not doing this again.

Nah fam it’s not a panic attack.

Mans will be straight take a shower and sleep it off.

If it was a panic attack you wouldn’t be capable of posting in ktt

How old are you op? Lol if you’re a grown ass man......

principles.com

grown ass men go thru this s*** too

theres been a time in your life where youve felt pressured to do something that other people want you to do but you dont, thats life. it happens to everyone no matter how masculine lmfao

Dude ima grown ass man, if I don’t wanna do something ima voice that. I’m too old to be falling victim to peer pressure. For my last birthday mfs wanted me to drink so bad but I declined and stuck with weed. Its not hard to speak up for yourself. Couldn’t imagine living life like that.

peer pressure happens on all kinds of different levels tho, its not always “come on man just get drunk, what are you a b****?”
it can be almost unnoticeable like your boss wanting an extra favor at work, your girl wanting you to buy something, your family wanting you to go to some event, everyone is peer pressured throughout life especially on the smaller scale

you right, I didn’t think of it like that. I just jumped to extremes like me and op case. Always tell your boss no tho they get too comfortable

it’s definitely understandable because peer pressure is mostly associated with alcohol and d**** real as hell tho f*** a greedy boss ive been there and im never going back

damn OP a midget man its ok big dawg