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  • So I thought I was in love, but I guess it was just lust. Still trying to make sense of what happened. Took my girl outta town for her bday, ended up separating.

    On our trip, just seeing her body kinda disgusted me ngl. Shes not built like a whale or anything, but she def put on some pounds, and not the good kind. I spoke to her a month ago about the weight, and she might've gone once or twice. But I know how she works out lol. She鈥檒l walk on the treadmill for a mile and call it a day. Thats cool, but you have to constantly do that everyday, or up the intensity. Walking on the treadmill isnt gonna help you, thats what older people do lol.

    But anyways, just ultimately felt like we weren't compatible. She鈥檚 said hurtful things to me, and played it like a joke. I questioned if she ever really gave a f*** about me, as the majority of the time I鈥檇 say something to spark convo and she鈥檇 just ignore me lol. Was just unhappy with the relationship tbh.

    So am I in the wrong here? I gave her a month to get herself together, she didnt take it serious. I dont like feeling like I鈥檓 down bad when I鈥檓 with my girl who has rolls on her stomach and wont do anything about it. I dont like feeling down bad cuz my girl doesnt give a s*** about anything I have to say. We only officially were together 6 months, (9 months total) but I鈥檝e learned a LOT during this relationship regarding her and myself. I just hate to see my girl not putting the work in to stay sexy while I鈥檓 in the gym 3-4 days out the week

  • Jan 12
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    if she says hurtful things to you & you鈥檙e not with it & you don鈥檛 think you鈥檙e compatible, good reason to break up

    if she doesn鈥檛 lose weight for you in a month & that鈥檚 why you broke up, you鈥檙e the a******

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    OP is NOT a chubby chaser!

  • Jan 12
    3 replies

    Seems weird to me that you're more offended at her getting big than saying hurtful things and ignoring you

  • Scratchin Mamba 馃嚜馃嚬
    Jan 12

    I mighta known her 'bout a couple of months
    Since then she gained a couple of chunks
    She went from being a strobe light
    To that old lady on Boomerang
    Lady Eloise I need no lights
    And I swear she a riot folks
    How she order all that food and a motherfucking Diet Coke?
    He said 'You lying yo, why is you lying yo?'
    Cut it out, quit it G, you hurting my kid-i-neys
    Naw, she talking bout a couple of kids for me (aww)
    She's hinting at a ring from Tiffany's
    Right then and there I had an epiphany
    I swear since that day I've been treating fat hoes differently

    Hook: Kanye West
    Aww, I see now
    You was hurt and you on the rebound (aww)
    Ben & Jerry's and Mickey D's now
    And you just gone gain all that weight on me now (naw)
    Naw (naw), fall back
    If I ain't a player then what the hell you call that?
    A nigga disrespect me I'mma be in all black
    But baby if you let me I'mma take it all back

  • ImAUsernameLike

    if she says hurtful things to you & you鈥檙e not with it & you don鈥檛 think you鈥檙e compatible, good reason to break up

    if she doesn鈥檛 lose weight for you in a month & that鈥檚 why you broke up, you鈥檙e the a******

  • Jan 12
    9 replies

    OP she鈥檚 gonna drop her weight and look hot as f*** and then you鈥檙e going to be the one who lost I鈥檝e seen it happen a million times. Should鈥檝e supported your girl through your girl through the ups and downs

  • Scratchin Mamba 馃嚜馃嚬
    Jan 12
    ImAUsernameLike

    if she says hurtful things to you & you鈥檙e not with it & you don鈥檛 think you鈥檙e compatible, good reason to break up

    if she doesn鈥檛 lose weight for you in a month & that鈥檚 why you broke up, you鈥檙e the a******

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    She doesn鈥檛 owe it to you to be in the kind of shape that you want. Probably best that you broke up if you aren鈥檛 willing to be supportive

  • Jan 12
    2 replies
    ImAUsernameLike

    if she says hurtful things to you & you鈥檙e not with it & you don鈥檛 think you鈥檙e compatible, good reason to break up

    if she doesn鈥檛 lose weight for you in a month & that鈥檚 why you broke up, you鈥檙e the a******

    Its not even just losing weight. If she was at least constantly in the gym, I wouldnt say s***. I know losing weight isnt gonna happen overnight lol. I was picking up the pounds in the early stages of our relationship, but I told myself imma get right.

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    Giving someone an ultimatum to change their whole health lifestyle in just a month is pretty wild. Maybe the hurtful things she says is a rebuttal to insensitivity & vanity in the relationship

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    You did the right thing OP, you gave your girl a chance to change but she decided to become lazy

    Also, based on how she treated you, breaking up was the best choice.

  • op is right
    king s***

  • Jan 12
    2 replies

    My plan was really to just observe for 2 weeks to see if she went to the gym by herself after our vacation. But I guess she felt I was acting funny and wanted answers.. so after she begged and plead for me to tell her, I caved.

  • Scratchin Mamba 馃嚜馃嚬
    Jan 12
    3 replies

  • Scratchin Mamba

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    OP can take her bullying him but she puts on a few pounds and he threatens to replace all the doors with these

  • Jan 12
    1 reply
    yungboiezi

    You did the right thing OP, you gave your girl a chance to change but she decided to become lazy

    Also, based on how she treated you, breaking up was the best choice.

    Fr. And its a lifestyle thing more than a weight thing lol. If you eat out 4-5 days out the week, come home, and just lay around all day, tf you think is gonna happen? Gotta stay active. I tried to support and go to the gym with her, but she needs to want the s*** for herself

  • Jan 12
    3 replies
    Okay Now Big Man

    Its not even just losing weight. If she was at least constantly in the gym, I wouldnt say s***. I know losing weight isnt gonna happen overnight lol. I was picking up the pounds in the early stages of our relationship, but I told myself imma get right.

    yea that鈥檚 just a weird ass request

    maybe work on whatever insecurities made you think that was okay to ask before you start dating again (not trying to insult you here, that was just a f***ed up reason to break up)

  • Jan 12
    1 reply

    If you don鈥檛 like her you don鈥檛 like her it鈥檚 simple

  • Jan 12
    Scratchin Mamba

  • Jan 12
    1 reply
    NoGoodNamesLeft

    Giving someone an ultimatum to change their whole health lifestyle in just a month is pretty wild. Maybe the hurtful things she says is a rebuttal to insensitivity & vanity in the relationship

    Nigga, did I say I expected a whole 180 in a month? F*** no, cmon lets be real. I just wanted to see her at least do things differently.

  • Jan 12
    3 replies
    ImAUsernameLike

    yea that鈥檚 just a weird ass request

    maybe work on whatever insecurities made you think that was okay to ask before you start dating again (not trying to insult you here, that was just a f***ed up reason to break up)

    how is wanting your partner to maintain a healthy lifestyle a weird request? bizarre post

  • Jan 12
    1 reply
    chips

    how is wanting your partner to maintain a healthy lifestyle a weird request? bizarre post

    i can鈥檛 take this post seriously when your profile is based on Lays potato chips

  • Jan 12
    1 reply
    Jbreezyondeck

    OP she鈥檚 gonna drop her weight and look hot as f*** and then you鈥檙e going to be the one who lost I鈥檝e seen it happen a million times. Should鈥檝e supported your girl through your girl through the ups and downs

    she'll stack it back on once she locks the new man in

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