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  • Apr 29, 2021

    it feels weird to do so? atm i'm a little exhausted by talking to my current friends for various reasons, so i thought i'd hit up old peoples. but it feels really weird! like we have whole lives without each other in them, and it feels kinda intrusive to just pop in randomly!

    any thoughts on this? am i just overthinking lol

  • Apr 29, 2021

    Just do it. I usually feel happy when someone from the past hits me up. I should do it more often to others tbh.

  • AT A CERTAIN POINT...NO.

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    IM SICK OF OVERPLAYING MY
    PART SO LATELY I BEEN ON MY GRIND HEAD DOWN DONT TEXT ME EVER

    NOT LIKE THEY REACH OUT FIRST ANYWAY

  • Apr 29, 2021

    Depends

    If theres no bad blood and you think you'd still be friends go for it

    I drunkenly made the mistake of trying to smooth out a damaged friendship and got a "lmao thanks" in the morning in response to a sincere (and honestly unnecessary) apology I sent

    So in short if one of u is mad at the other don't do it if its been a very long time, but if you're just old friends absolutely I'd love to hear from mine more often

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    Just flat out tell them to join your pyramid scheme

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    le epic poster xD

    Just flat out tell them to join your pyramid scheme

    Have had this happen to me and it was super random and weird to me LMAO. Bro hit me talking about “Hey man how have you been it’s been a while”

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    ANIME

    Have had this happen to me and it was super random and weird to me LMAO. Bro hit me talking about “Hey man how have you been it’s been a while”

    WAT YOU SAY BACK?

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    Majin GoldenChild

    WAT YOU SAY BACK?

    “hey man, I’m sorry but I’m super busy right now and can’t talk to you at the moment, I will get back to you when I’m available” ghosted his ass and blocked him too.

    I HAVE NOT TALKED TO THIS MAN SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HE STILL HAD MY NUMBER

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    “hey man, I’m sorry but I’m super busy right now and can’t talk to you at the moment, I will get back to you when I’m available” ghosted his ass and blocked him too.

    I HAVE NOT TALKED TO THIS MAN SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HE STILL HAD MY NUMBER

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    ANIME

    Have had this happen to me and it was super random and weird to me LMAO. Bro hit me talking about “Hey man how have you been it’s been a while”

    this forex dude cold messaged me on Facebook

    And when I rejected his pitch and said not interested he said "peace off random."

  • Apr 29, 2021
    le epic poster xD

    this forex dude cold messaged me on Facebook

    And when I rejected his pitch and said not interested he said "peace off random."

    based

  • Apr 29, 2021

    Nah

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    If they're the type of people that don't ever hit you up and you doing all the heavy lifting...

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    op bout to txt 'hey bob hope your well you still with ..... she always was a hottie you mind if i do my thing' after he saw said ex on social looking scrumptious i see you op you tryna get that old friends ex

  • Apr 29, 2021
    dxz99

    If they're the type of people that don't ever hit you up and you doing all the heavy lifting...

    yh heavy lifting be long if its feeling too onesided let it go

  • Apr 29, 2021

    strange behavior. if you're tired of your current group branch out and meet new people

  • Apr 29, 2021
    ANIME

    “hey man, I’m sorry but I’m super busy right now and can’t talk to you at the moment, I will get back to you when I’m available” ghosted his ass and blocked him too.

    I HAVE NOT TALKED TO THIS MAN SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HE STILL HAD MY NUMBER

    how old you now? what age is middle school im not us based

  • Apr 29, 2021
    dxz99

    If they're the type of people that don't ever hit you up and you doing all the heavy lifting...

    Man my life has been so trash for the past couple years that I ain't talk to nobody. I feel awful all the time that I never hit anyone up. I was just carrying around too much baggage to socialize + couldn't even get around on my own. I miss my dawgs but at this point it feels too late

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    nothing wrong with randomly checkin in on someone to say hi

  • Classique

    nothing wrong with randomly checkin in on someone to say hi

    hi

  • Apr 29, 2021
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    mdmadon

    op bout to txt 'hey bob hope your well you still with ..... she always was a hottie you mind if i do my thing' after he saw said ex on social looking scrumptious i see you op you tryna get that old friends ex

    ayeee chill bro

    but nah, just various people that i haven't gotten around to talking to in a while due to circumstance and the 'demic

  • PIMP 💿
    Apr 29, 2021

    i text with a friend like 2-3 times a year thats even the running joke sometimes

    like bro stop hittin me up every february or sumn

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    i h8 when people do this tbh. leave me alone, it's a reason we ain't speaking bozo

    edit: ig it depends on circumstances

  • Apr 29, 2021
    Majin GoldenChild

    IM SICK OF OVERPLAYING MY
    PART SO LATELY I BEEN ON MY GRIND HEAD DOWN DONT TEXT ME EVER

    NOT LIKE THEY REACH OUT FIRST ANYWAY

    true, a lot of people never reach out first but it does go both ways, a person may not reach out to you because of the same reason. someone's gotta take the plunge

    or it may be that they just don't like you but i've found that that's unlikely, at least in my life