Cut a long story short, I was that cool nigga who dressed fly, got tons of girls, etc. but around fall 2019 I had a fallout with a bunch of people who i thought were my friends. They cut me off and it hit my confidence pretty hard. It was a very dramatic change in the life I once knew. Also being in debt and other issues. So fast forward a year and a half it's been a pretty lonely quarantine and not talking to many people as I used to, and this of course like everyone has an affect on your mental health. It's been a lowkey blessing in disguise allowing me to pay off this debt and reflect on a LOT of things. I feel I have no choice but to reinvent myself. But I know I can bounce back HARD once I'm out this debt and make some key changes. The question is: How? How can I bounce back to be even more confident than before? To reach my potential? To prove others wrong?

23 turning 24 next month

I'd say, Take it one step at a time, write down ur goals and follow them.

tryna figure that out too

i just feel like man i'm 6'4 dark and handsome. how i let human beings destroy my confidence so easily is a big regret, developed severe anxiety and all sorts. but i have a chance to build the foundation from scratch again i refuse to let this potential go to waste

good start

Focus on you

well dont build your confidence on either your physical attributes or other peoples perception and you wont have to worry about this part as much

u got no other option but to bounce back, just be yourself and keep doing what you know you need to do. i dont think its anything here for you to figure out, just keep ya head up n keep pushin

nah i appreciate this fr it's as simple as that sometimes, but it's easy to overthink. and i'm a big overthinker

It's a classic phrase but y'all shouldn't ignore:

Everybody can have what you got but they can't be who you are

Focus on you. Do your thing.
Haters gonna hate but let you success shut they ass up

And listen to this close

i feel you im the same way but man this life s*** is not as hard as we make it out to be, being in the positions we are. We are living first world, got resources galore, options, different paths and all sorts of ways. Set yourself goals and be clear about where you needa go, opportunities are gonna come along the way dont stress it!