https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/10/opinion/sunday/stop-beating-black-children.html
https://www.wearyourvoicemag.com/black-whupping-review-stacey-pattons-spare-kids/
https://www.apa.org/pi/families/resources/newsletter/2017/04/immigrant-punishment
here are some good opinion pieces/articles on the matter, and how it affects communities of color
a light smack or pinch aint bad or even a launched sandal here and there, it's obviously a spectrum but the intense rage-fueled pain infliction by someone who is supposed to love you is what really bothers me and can affect people
Yeah I don't trust people who use a belt or switch. That s*** sounds too much for anyone
There's way too much subjectivity in regards to what "spanking" or 'beating" a kid really means. Also, what type of action by the child that leads to corporal punishment matters in development. I hate vague discussions like this because this type of discussion requires specifics.
Spanking a kid butt with your hands isn't beating.
Getting a belt is slowly crossing that line.
A switch or branch or putting a bruise def is beating.
Right
!https://youtu.be/g01_MH5O_J8Wrong
!https://youtu.be/z3NFSOJ8SS4the way her voice switched up at the end
Spanking a kid butt with your hands isn't beating.
Getting a belt is slowly crossing that line.
A switch or branch or putting a bruise def is beating.
That's the problem, lol. All of those could leave marks if used with enough force. Also, you could use a belt or a switch and still not "beat" a child or leave a mark. That's exactly why these discussions go nowhere because of what people conceive as meanings in their own mind and personal experiences.
That's the problem, lol. All of those could leave marks if used with enough force. Also, you could use a belt or a switch and still not "beat" a child or leave a mark. That's exactly why these discussions go nowhere because of what people conceive as meanings in their own mind and personal experiences.
Yeah that's true
Spanking a kid butt with your hands isn't beating.
Getting a belt is slowly crossing that line.
A switch or branch or putting a bruise def is beating.
What the hell lmao
Been known that spanking is damafing but people dont wanna acknowledge that their parents possibly did them damage
And among black people theres almost like a weird sense of pride abt being hit as a child and not being hit as a child is seen as "white".. toxic af
Im glad my mom broke the cycle and u should do the same theres rly no excuse, we all know better by now
You acting like everyone that got beat is traumatized LMAOO I still fw my parents heavy and I dont care because I deserved it as a child, I’m probably not gonna beat my kids but I ain’t afraid of my parents or sum
what do yall think about exercise as a form of punishment
i think that’s a better alternative to physically striking your child but like once they refuse to do the exercise you’re back to sq 1
feel like any other form is mental abuse. like taking a kids prized toy is like if someone repo’d your car or someone took your bitcj
Lmao taking stuff away (as long as the kids are taught and given ways to earn it back) is not mental abuse. ABA therapy (basically teaching that all actions have consequences - both positive and negative) is one of the only effective tools to treat autism disorder, but is also applicable and highly effective with most children/people
My mom used to beat me and i wasnt a bad kid, i love her but that s*** still has effect on me as a adult man if i ever have kids i wont hurt them, i know what it does, i dont blame my mama neither because thats what happened to her growing up, we need to break the cycle instead of continuing it
I’m not going to beat my kids. I got my ass beat and even when I wasn’t in the wrong I got my ass beat. I told my mom about that s*** recently and she didn’t even know what to say, and it’s hella embarrassing when they do that take you to the bathroom s***.
If I’m watching my nephew all I have to do is change my tone and make it clear I’m not playing with him and lil nigga would start tearing up and get his act straight.
There’s better ways to discipline your kids then physically harming them.
You acting like everyone that got beat is traumatized LMAOO I still fw my parents heavy and I dont care because I deserved it as a child, I’m probably not gonna beat my kids but I ain’t afraid of my parents or sum
That's not what i said lol
ion know man i got my ass whooped whooped big leather belt pants down style. but i also believe it comes down to your genetic makeup and cultural background on being able to handle ass whoopins. my parents and their parents got their asses whooped so it was in my genes to be able to jus take my ass whoopins as apart of life. ive done far more damage to my psyche through my own actions than a whoopin 20 years ago ever did