LIL INTRO VERT

2y

Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.

LIL INTRO VERT

2y

Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.

Nuja

2y

Been awhile since I’ve made a cringe vulnerable post lol.

As a single black male, s*** is hard out here. Not the social type and have agoraphobia so I’m not going out meeting people really. I HAVE to rely on the internet for dating. Until recent years it wasn’t a problem but getting older and the game changing up has made it much harder. As a black male (or woman even) like everything else in life we have to be twice as good as everyone else to be seen as viable or a catch. Meanwhile other races can get away with bare minimum (not even that) behavior and still have no problem dating. When dating within our race we hold each other to annoying or ridiculous standards. Dating outside is even worse because fetish is usually somewhere at the core of the other persons attraction. It’s rarely because we are liked for being us. Idk. It’s bad all around.

It probably wouldn’t bother me if I was completely inept and unable to pull women at all. The fact I attract women but can’t find a sustainable relationship drives me nuts at this point. And I’m also self aware that I’m at an age where my personal circumstances come strongly into play why things are hard for me and I get that too. So I don’t even trip or hold it against women. But it sucks too because bc a mf don’t like being lonely either and I hate the whole side nigga gig.

Cole2

2y

You can only save yourself

John Madden

2y

Lmao this CANT be true according to the numbers
What's most likely happening is women are responding that they are In a relationship when they are at most a side chick

And guys are responding that they are single because that's what we do

Think about it, there are way more women than men so how could this be close to true?

Survey is flawed

Dedication 666

2y

I don't think that mentality is that prevalent. I think it's just a bad sample.

John Madden

2y

Whether it's mentality or a flawed sample my point was this can't be true

HOV INNOCENT

2y

There’s still something going on even if this survey isn’t exact

There’s obviously way more single men

John Madden

2y

Not even closely imo

Way more single women I believe

HOV INNOCENT

2y

This is anecdotal of course but all the women I went to high school with are married with kids

And literally none of the men are lol

HOV INNOCENT

2y

This is anecdotal of course but all the women I went to high school with are married with kids

And literally none of the men are lol

Dedication 666

2y

how old are you?

LIL INTRO VERT

2y

Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.