Jun 2, 2023CloudyDreamsThere’s a lot of good girls. It’s honestly a myth that they don’t exist. The problem is that alotta guys turn into monsters because they were subjected to alotta trashy ass hoes who treated em wrong or ghosted em when they were younger that by the time these girls either clean up their act or you just get older and start dating higher quality women, most men are unable to let the past go. Which I mean is completely fair. Men should be way more demanding for the qualities of their life partner because too many just accept the first woman that likes them.
5 years ago, I never woulda thought of rejecting a girl and now I’m doing it left and center.
100%
and you can't expect a woman to understand this a lot of the time so there's a big disconnect in communication
- Jun 2, 2023
Deep down
I believe you know you're a monster too 
Jun 2, 2023
PuffyWish someone would love bomb me
- Jun 2, 2023Your Love Is King
Wish someone would bomb me
This too
- Jun 2, 2023·1 replyYour Love Is King
I wish I knew this a year ago :/ late bloomer fr
Late bloomers finish last
- Jun 2, 2023Proto
Late bloomers finish last
at least we're alive i guess
Jun 2, 2023·edited·1 replyCloudyDreamsThere’s a lot of good girls. It’s honestly a myth that they don’t exist. The problem is that alotta guys turn into monsters because they were subjected to alotta trashy ass hoes who treated em wrong or ghosted em when they were younger that by the time these girls either clean up their act or you just get older and start dating higher quality women, most men are unable to let the past go. Which I mean is completely fair. Men should be way more demanding for the qualities of their life partner because too many just accept the first woman that likes them.
5 years ago, I never woulda thought of rejecting a girl and now I’m doing it left and center.
I agree with you partially but to be honest disagree that there are a lot of good girls out here. I think a lot of women sub 40/45 years old are influenced by our current popular culture that leads them to develop aspects of themselves that make them not quality partners/not empathetic to their partner or makes them develop unrealistic expectations that make them insatiable.
A lot of dudes do turn into monsters like you said because of bad experiences and can’t let the past go, but I think a lot of women out here are just not committed partner material. Either narcissistic, caught up on their exes, can’t appreciate a good partner or someone who doesn’t play games/someone who is secure and consistent, are emotionally unavailable/immature or are chasing toxicity.
Think of those couples who you know that have been rocking for 5 plus years and are crazy in love still and dedicated. The good women who don’t play games, are caring/supportive/commitment oriented get locked down quick by guys that are smart enough to discern that they’re worthy partners.
And then the rest of the majority have to sift through a dating market of trash ass options
That’s true that many guys just accept whatever women like them with open arms where as women are much more picky generally
Jun 2, 2023U dodged a bullet
- Jun 2, 2023DR LONGSTROKE
I agree with you partially but to be honest disagree that there are a lot of good girls out here. I think a lot of women sub 40/45 years old are influenced by our current popular culture that leads them to develop aspects of themselves that make them not quality partners/not empathetic to their partner or makes them develop unrealistic expectations that make them insatiable.
A lot of dudes do turn into monsters like you said because of bad experiences and can’t let the past go, but I think a lot of women out here are just not committed partner material. Either narcissistic, caught up on their exes, can’t appreciate a good partner or someone who doesn’t play games/someone who is secure and consistent, are emotionally unavailable/immature or are chasing toxicity.
Think of those couples who you know that have been rocking for 5 plus years and are crazy in love still and dedicated. The good women who don’t play games, are caring/supportive/commitment oriented get locked down quick by guys that are smart enough to discern that they’re worthy partners.
And then the rest of the majority have to sift through a dating market of trash ass options
That’s true that many guys just accept whatever women like them with open arms where as women are much more picky generally
I see what you mean and I think that’s a fair observation. I guess when I thought of good girls, I thought of career and family oriented women who have their morals/ethics and don’t just thot around. But you’re right that women can be all that but still have very unrealistic expectations in their partner and not actually be supportive or can be clingy/controlling. Hell I just cut off a woman who was family oriented, sweet, only had one relationship prior to me, etc. but getting to know her, I kinda realized she was mad obsessive with social media and would get exhausting to deal with whenever she would get upset if I ain’t want to upload pics with her online or have much of an online presence in general even though we wasn’t even official or anything. S*** irked me the wrong way and I was out.
So yeah you’re right it can be hard to find girls who are actually good for relationships. I guess I just approached it from women with good character but that don’t necessarily mean they know how to be good partners. Women also just be way too damn demanding a lotta times when I wish the dynamic was moreso about doing things for each other rather than telling them what you want
Jun 2, 2023She just immature
Jun 2, 2023God loves youYour ex will be back. Homeboy a rebound
I can attest to this
Jun 2, 2023get f***ed
Jun 2, 2023Bro
WINTER 🌨️Jun 2, 2023God loves youLowkey. I thought it’d just be a summer fling type thing. Wasn’t taking it seriously because she just got out of a relationship last month and second time I saw her, first week meeting her, she was already talking about “should I stop seeing other people”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. She was a cool lil adventure buddy
shoulda been you
- WINTER 🌨️Jun 2, 2023·2 replies
she was looking for a rebound and op couldn't f*** her before she got bored
- Jun 3, 2023·1 replyYour Love Is King
That’s how we men get hurt, it starts off a fling in our heads then we slowly start to emotionally invest as we invest our time
But yeah man she was fresh out a relationship confused and looking for something to cling on
Relatable for me right now cause my ex found a new dude a week after we broke up and im hoping their relationship f***ing sucks
Nigga move on
- Jun 3, 2023·1 replySBMike
Nigga move on
- Jun 3, 2023·1 replyWINTER
she was looking for a rebound and op couldn't f*** her before she got bored
Nah, crazy thing is I f***ed her first night 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I wanted to chill with her more
- WINTER 🌨️Jun 3, 2023God loves you
Nah, crazy thing is I f***ed her first night 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I wanted to chill with her more
- Jun 3, 2023·2 replies
can someone explain lovebombing to me? what if i really am in love with a person and i like expressing it
Jun 3, 2023·1 replyDJ7A7Acan someone explain lovebombing to me? what if i really am in love with a person and i like expressing it
Love bombing is doing that and then just acting cold the next day. Like nothing happened.
- Jun 3, 2023DJ7A7A
can someone explain lovebombing to me? what if i really am in love with a person and i like expressing it
That’s why I put quotations, I don’t really believe in it but it’s when someone showers you with love then ghosts. It’s Lowkey weird af to me more than anything but maybe she just lost interest🤷♂️
Jun 3, 2023Your Love Is KingYou’ll get ghosted by 4 girls for every 1 girl that MIGHT give you a chance
It’s just the game brotha
Damn
- Jun 3, 2023Your Love Is King
Gotta do it my boy. Checking on her situation and hoping for the worst not good for anybody involved. - Jun 3, 2023·1 replyWINTER
she was looking for a rebound and op couldn't f*** her before she got bored
It’s so crazy how you really have a certain time window to slide. Like if a chick wants to f*** you she either wants to off rip, is potentially willing to within that first month or so it can go either way, or it will just likely never happen.