Like idk if I’m just depressed as s*** or if my life is really just in shambles. I feel like I’m not doing what I’m supposed to be doing. I'm 21, fully dependent on my parents financially wise, have no job, have hardly any hoes besides some chicks from Tinder, and a small circle of friends. And I’m hardly squeezing by with college.

Everyone notices the potential in me, and I mean EVERYONE. Literal strangers. Chicks who I date. So do I. My Dad wasnt in my life growing up due to my Mom’s toxicness, but he is now and honestly I dont think he realizes how much help I need. I just need to boss my life tf up, but idk how to or where to start A new year is coming up though, and I just need to take everything in a positive light. This highkey just a vent thread, post your thoughts if you want to though.

Get a job

Big facts. Like even some on campus s*** will help tremendously. I just need something to look forward to

When is you birthday op

Try opening up to your dad. Tell him youre tryna improve as man

He's outta town right now, but me and him def needa have a talk about it. Like I feel niggas disrespect me and get away with this s***, whole time I dont even peep the disrespect. Or I think it is, but dont act on it because I’m such an even-tempered person

In May

You need to find a role model/ mentor irl tbh. Someone whos been where you want to go or has been in a similar situation.

At least know if you start to work you'll be on your way.

dam op is me no bs

We needa change for the better bro

Working, making and saving money will really change your life. Set personal goals and speak them into fruition, you’re young you got mad time but don’t sit around forever boss up now. I’m 24 and got the job I’m working at now when I was 21 and I worked my way up into management. Start with small goals like always having 500 in your account and as you keep getting them checks change the amount to 1k, 2k, 3k etc. Money is my motivation, I also have a boss b**** but no girl wants a broke dude, get on your feet start making this bread and the pieces will fall into your lap. Eventually you’ll get your own apartment and be able to say YOU did it yourself and you’ll feel like you’re on top of the world and nobody can tell you s***

F*** a job, OP needs to find and follow his CORRECT path, whether that’s a square job or starting a business.

i was typing out some long s*** man but my honest advice bro , is once you start , dont give up

and answer this for me , what would your life coach tell you?

Kinda need one too to help my social life

I think I need a life...... coach
Coaches response = yes u do Sliggity

I do a thing where

U write to yourself and coach yourself in a diary

You write down ur problem(s)

And Pretending to be someone else try to figure it out with yourself

Writing it down helps a lot so u can remember

Niggas make it out the hood without no life coach. Damn, just wig yaself op you built from a weak ass fabric

I just want him to be flat out honest with me and guide me with what I should be doing. I feel like I’m doing everything wrong

Join a gym that has group classes. Dont sleep on this idea

Do positive things in life like working out or running. Find a new hobby. Join a club.

i think you know what to do already. but you need to life coach yourself

As a recent college grad bro u better cherish that time in college

Literally talk to random ppl and form connections

Join a club or something to meet women

I stayed in my circle but brancheD out a good bit In college but looking back I could’ve done more & you can too good luck op

this dude used to Jonas (founder of LRG one of the biggest/richest streetwear brands early 2000s) life coach and now he got a podcast

never listened to it tho so I dunno how good it is but it’s supposed to be about improving your life

instagram.com/projectmindset47

How do I find a roll model