Fuk em

They afraid a real nigga might change their life for the better

I think if you really want her it’s always worth trying to turn it around. The only thing hurting you is your ego and youre letting a random chick have effect on your own self perception. She doesn’t know you. She only knows a surface level first impression of you, so even if she not vibing, don’t take it hard because why the f*** are you putting every girls opinion on a pedestal, she’s just a random dumb b**** lol

Anyways I honestly believe the key is just getting used to rejection, almost expecting it but being ready for when she’s actually receptive

It doesn’t have to be, women don’t get turned on by jesters, read my username

This is rookie speak. You know how many girls I’ve been rejected by? Probably like 8000 lol. For every 5 girls you get rejected by you can secure 3 numbers in the same day and most likely f*** at least 2 if you got game.

Exactly. Rejection is just a warmup for my next approach. It’s a numbers game fam, don’t let one girls opinion crush your ego lol

Unironically true. Some b****es are just stuck in their ways so even if something good came along their minds and hearts just can’t accept it or they’ll self sabotage because they think they’re not good enough

The ego and mind is f***in crazy. As soon as you realize other people got their own problems and that should not change the way you see yourself then everything becomes a lot easier

u got to stop taking ur ego to seriously. it sounds like ur not capable of having fun with ur innerself. being rejected is funny as s*** u got to laugh at urself for it then moove on

Called off work today, don’t feel like seeing my b**** ass coworkers today lol

Exactly, you gotta learn to be able to laugh at yourself, trust me crodie I’ve had girls clown me for being short, say mean ass s*** to me, but I’ll have those same b****es in bed calling me daddy

The key is to not fold and never let a dumb b****es words affect you. When girls realize you’re not easily shaken they are way more attracted to you cause they know you’re not a b**** lol

she wasn't a random dumb b****. she was a 9/10, model tier, wearing some striking high fashion that caught my eye, probably came from money. The type of person who would look at me and confidently say I'm beneath them

This is so key

Just cause she’s wearing some nice clothes don’t make her special gang, you gotta treat these dimes like you treat any other woman. Putting them on a pedestal is going to make them respect you less

Not going to work is such a goated feeling holy s***

op conflicted af

I'm attracted to feminine women, but I have too much pride and ego to chase and try to win them over. I either need to change who i'm attracted to, or learn to play the game I guess even if it feels cringy

i am, im not afraid to admit i'm a very flawed individual but it's something I'm being honest, open, and wanting to change about

lust is something i've struggled with my whole life but I at least try to respect women, make sure their get something out of our time together, and be honest with them

i am aware that it's a dead end path, i do crave actual intimacy with someone i respect and love but lately it's been hard to find

what's so hard about feminine women? feminine women are alot easier to get along and deal with than masculine women lol

that brother is LOST

all these hoes s*** the same!

some of them play hard to get (supposedly) and aren't going to give me the energy I want right off the bat. I do better with women who are more forward and transparent

don't we all nah but seriously if they're not giving you the energy you want, maybe try a little, but I would just keep it moving. girls usually can tell whether they wanna f*** with you within like 2 seconds of seeing you tbh

just stop being so fatalistic

ur giving up ur ego to text a girl? Like it’s not that serious

I asked this chick about love languages and she just went on a 5 minute rant about how men are low effort for just liking physical touch and quality time. It seems like a projected andf i'm not sure how to respond to that. still trying to crack tho

Like I'm not "men" baby girl, you don't have to worry about any of that anymore. Let's focus on me and you

physical touch and quality time aint low effort wtf time is money bih lol. she wants gifts n s*** already and y'all just met smh 🚩

i actually laughed out loud reading this gang, nah you got it