at what point do you just abandon people ? :โI swear, sometimes you feel obligated to help someone because it makes a big difference for them and it's no big deal to you, then it turns out you have to carry their ass screaming and scratching all the way and do every little single thing for them. then do they thank you ? well nope the f*** not, they actually resent you for it because they associate you with the work they have to do lmao
and then either you can't move on because it's family, or you do move on and it's crying and guilt tripping
i have a f***ing passion for pedagogy so I have problems saying no when someone wants me to teach them something, but it's the second time i end up in that situation and I'm starting to question it all. this some captain save-a-hoe bs, either I stop giving my time and i'm the bad guy, or I keep giving my time and I'm treated like a bad guy because I help instead of just laying d***
low energy no willpower having ass motherfuckers. people just will grab any excuse to drop out of something. daddy issues make it so they try to create drama just to have an excuse to stop working. I'll hang and play, sex, whatever. no problem. as soon as I say "let's get to work", we're five minutes from some f***ing drama. if I never say "let's get to work", we never work and then I'm the a****** for not helping motivate them.
(sorry for sounding like an loser but damn is that s*** infuriating when it happens to you twice in a few years, everybody tells me to just exit this toxic ass situation, but I can't abandon people i dunno what's wrong with me.)
what work you talking about bro
programming, linguistics, writing...
in this case it was linguistic (taught her english) and now it's programming, she's tired of dead end student jobs and she wants to be a web dev. which is like the easiest thing you can do with programming skills, but hoe is lazy and vindictive. needed to vent, i know what i gotta do.
man, i don't understand how some people were raised, for real
this thread a humble brag, f*** you OP.
fr ? i felt like it was more of an admission of weakness tbh
the woman in question's father is an arts teacher, so this is a daddy issue triple whammy btw
I tried reading but it hurt brain
sorry i tried
u can't complain and then when faced w the answer admit you're wrong but not do anything you acting just like them.
just admit that you're gonna stick by em or dip what's the point in agonizing otherwise
No good deed goes unpunished fam. I just mind my own biz -- nobody gonna stick their neck out for me, so I ain't propping anybody up
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i aint no sugar daddy btw i grew up on slick rick
AI generated TL;DR :
at what point do you just abandon people ? :
well nope the f*** not, they actually resent you for it because they associate you with the work they have to do lmao and then either you can't move on because it's family, or you do move on and it's crying and guilt tripping i have a f***ing passion for pedagogy so I have problems saying no when someone wants me to teach them something, but it's the second time i end up in that situation and I'm starting to question it all.
people just will grab any excuse to drop out of something.
daddy issues make it so they try to create drama just to have an excuse to stop working.
as soon as I say "let's get to work", we're five minutes from some f***ing drama.
AI generated TL;DR :
at what point do you just abandon people ? :
well nope the f*** not, they actually resent you for it because they associate you with the work they have to do lmao and then either you can't move on because it's family, or you do move on and it's crying and guilt tripping i have a f***ing passion for pedagogy so I have problems saying no when someone wants me to teach them something, but it's the second time i end up in that situation and I'm starting to question it all.
people just will grab any excuse to drop out of something.
daddy issues make it so they try to create drama just to have an excuse to stop working.
as soon as I say "let's get to work", we're five minutes from some f***ing drama.
this is amazing