But I dont know how, or where 2 start?

I share this sentiment. What's the main issue you have?

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try a bit of everything and see what you like that's my plan

Start small and pick one thing to fix slowly. Will feel like you're doing nothing at the start but once you develop a positive routine you can start targetting other aspects of your life

do u have goals?

Small steps to start off. Day by day.

Well I'm reluctant to rent a room, partly cuz my background or nervous with strangers.
Plus have 2 smedium dogs and I aint used to regula degula neighborhoods most ppl used to!
Guess thats issue numero uno

Pick a goal and focus your entire being towards it

Of course, I wanna get stable but no matter what I try.
It isn't ever that complete package. Nothing near,... you know a steady job, my own spot, bf, kids one day maybe idk but like my dad sparked the thought process of me even posting this cuz I'm not getting younger he hella worries about me cuz I take off or I have in the past cuz I get tired of my surroundings
Same s*** sometimes we fight sometimes we cool when s*** hits the fan i aint ever do enough im always bein dumb kinda talk like ONE DAY YOULL GET IT ONE DAY YOULL UNDERSTAND YOULL SEE

Thank you, good advice

I know routines a major aspect that I have not been able to lock into. I wish but it aint realistic where I stay

Still down appreciate you commenting

ROUTINE!!!

I cannot stress enough how badly a routine formed with good habits helps

Humans are habitual creatures

Don't listen to this guy you'll just end up with no free time

Move to a third world country where the cost of living is low

lmaooo facts! but he better bring a bag with him cuz u don't get paid s*** for work down here

What might yours be?

What about adventure?! And living life to the fullest and saying f.t.s!!!

Lmao not everybody share the fts viewpoint i know this and Erkyl can just pull up dem suspenders cuz we been thru this and its part of the reason my mama been in n out of my life so much so i say fts prison system is outdated hella n e ways

Lol scratch that second line, got a little out there for a min

Wake up, brush your teeth, clean your room/bed, stretch, eat something healthy, drink water

how the hell you just throw that in ;) niiiiice

nah just work a year in there & can just come here & have a 10 year vacation its not a bad plan

Hmm maybe routine is too strong a word but planning your days and other things boosts self control, discipline and makes you feel a bit more fulfilled at the end of the day for sticking with and doing what you set out to do, you don't have to be super strict with it at first

I have a set time for when I wake up and go to sleep which helps you feel a bit more energetic, I set a time aside for time to myself, I walk my dog at the same time everyday, exercise at the same time etc

It helps manage feelings of uncertainty and anxiety imo and helps form a strong sense of self

everything in moderation dude

Step 1 Meditate

I’ll be back for step 2