It’s the chicken or egg situation, I’m sure most of them adopt that mentality due to being treated poorly by others.
From experience, the most fundamental change that one can make to change their situation if they’re in this place is internally
I’ve been showered in attention and the opportunity to make friendships and simply rejected it
There’s obviously different cases, but many of them are a matter of personal motivation and not access to social circles
Depending on where you live most people don’t want to be bothered when out and about, at least that’s how it’s here in Washington
ya just make sure your not interrupting them thats why i think just a smile and nod could be a lead into convo if they reciprocate
idk dont you see people when your at the gym, grocery store
saying hi to rando's isn't gonna cure my loneliness and you aren't gonna build a connection off a singular social interaction unless u hella extroverted or sumn
Blaming individuals when this is clearly a societal problem is wrong
Maybe you’re part of the problem
Nah I make sure all my homies are good, in fact my closest friend from childhood told me he was lonely and wanted to kill himself.
I told him he can do whatever he wants, but to know that he’s loved and if he leaves now we won’t get to explore our musical abilities God blessed us with.
That was 2 years ago and my dawg still here with a catalog and an acceptance of himself and his life. He learned to see the light at the end of the tunnel and not focus on his loneliness/depression but actually take advantage of the help being offered to him by his friends, professionals and his artistic abilities.
dogs do the same thing idk why we dont
We gotta start sniffing each other's assess to save society
bro it's f***in crazy I remember having this convo with a chick I went to school with and she was talking about how she only wants to go to clubs where she can get a section / bottle service and hookah and s*** lmaooo
Like don't get me wrong that s*** cool too but nigga I like hearing music and meeting people
that's fair lol but im talking more about how neighborhoods and cities are designed
saying hi to rando's isn't gonna cure my loneliness and you aren't gonna build a connection off a singular social interaction unless u hella extroverted or sumn
not with that attitude
that's fair lol but im talking more about how neighborhoods and cities are designed
I don't think thats really the issue. Just like in school some people just don't make friends.
that's fair lol but im talking more about how neighborhoods and cities are designed
oh 100% that too, I seen this video on how Houston was designed and it was terrifying lol like I couldn't imagine being a kid in that area
not with that attitude
I mean ya u can still build a social network if you really work at it, no one is saying its impossible
but our day to day lives and environments don't really promote it (at least for the majority of people)
I don't think thats really the issue. Just like in school some people just don't make friends.
I highly disagree
I don't think thats really the issue. Just like in school some people just don't make friends.
Bruh even the weirdest, quietest niggas at my school had friends people just lack the ability to look past their problems and include themselves when people are trying to include them then years later claim loneliness
Niggas need a balance fr, I f*** with my hobbies that I do solo, but I also be outside.
I've noticed how nagging people for going to social events and clubs in general has been on the rise lately and that's insane to me lol
Feels like everybody tryna be a fake introvert
Regarding your last sentence, it seems that kids this generation are being groomed into autism, it’s really sad.
Niggas need a balance fr, I f*** with my hobbies that I do solo, but I also be outside.
I've noticed how nagging people for going to social events and clubs in general has been on the rise lately and that's insane to me lol
Feels like everybody tryna be a fake introvert
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I mean ya u can still build a social network if you really work at it, no one is saying its impossible
but our day to day lives and environments don't really promote it (at least for the majority of people)
idk i kind of just mimicked the behaviour of how old ppl get away with saying stuff and starting random convos just bc there old
Regarding your last sentence, it seems that kids this generation are being groomed into autism, it’s really sad.
What you mean by groomed exactly