Yeah you know s*** is bad when you’re coming here trying to feel some sort of connection
Even just when online you just have to find people that you have something in common with. for example socialists on here have their own lil thread where they rant back forth together.
I just get along well with people who enjoy sports, fashion, traveling and food. Like if you love either one of those things like I love em, we’ll be cool off the bat. Bonus points if you’re African lol.
But ik for me, it’s just doing it lol. Like I’m more than capable to hold and carry a convo, but I don’t like walking up on strangers lol. Like I said, tryna do better tho.
Literally this bro. I got friends I keep in touch with who I met in other countries and s***. I got friends I made through training in MMA, mufuckas moved to Brazil and still keep in touch.
My modeling homies was hitting me up from Milan etc.
Like you said it's just carrying a convo
we’re not talking about flirting
We’re just talking about people wanting to have a convo lol
yea, i mean i have met people including women just randomly walking around, but its usually because of something very specific but its very rare, especially since people usually listening to music these days
most people dont have a lot of hobbies or interests
an even still its so fake in that world a lot of the time, like if u make music only a few mufuckas u meet is gonna become your good friend
Yea it's fake if everybodys tryna climb socially I suppose.
I just have a lot of different friends due to trying new things
im lonely as f*** ngl
all my friends are either in college or other states and when i go and try and make new ones they don't hit the same
Yea it's fake if everybodys tryna climb socially I suppose.
I just have a lot of different friends due to trying new things
i know some ppl online but tbh irl i dont know that many people who share my interests, which is just music, science/math and anime tbh
girls pretty rarely approach, theyll usually just give u a smile
Speak for yourself
Idk maybe it's just me but I've had a lot of random encounters with mfs over the years lol especially being approached
i know some ppl online but tbh irl i dont know that many people who share my interests, which is just music, science/math and anime tbh
Try to find people who may like one of those things. They don't have to like everything you do.
Idk maybe it's just me but I've had a lot of random encounters with mfs over the years lol especially being approached
My locs alone be getting me headnods from strangers lol
There is an epidemic of loneliness in the United States and lacking connection can increase the risk for premature death to levels comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day, according to a new advisory from the U.S. Surgeon General.
https://www.npr.org/2023/05/02/1173418268/loneliness-connection-mental-health-dementia-surgeon-general
Here's a pdf from the Surgeon General
https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf
we all gotta try an be more connected with family friends join social groups online even bumble has a friends section where everyone can find friends, as much as i s*** post sometimes on here the site i am glad i get to talk with everyone on here because we all have on thing in common an its love for music
Try to find people who may like one of those things. They don't have to like everything you do.
its not that i dont know people its that im not close with many people
that s*** go deeper than a hobby
most people dont have a lot of hobbies or interests
an even still its so fake in that world a lot of the time, like if u make music only a few mufuckas u meet is gonna become your good friend
You don’t need a lot of hobbies.
Dudes base their entire personalities around video games, weed, and comic book movies and wonder why girls don’t find them interesting.
You don’t need a lot of hobbies.
Dudes base their entire personalities around video games, weed, and comic book movies and wonder why girls don’t find them interesting.
what
girls dont give a f*** about your hobbies they just like ur energy/personality or they dont
true for everyone actually
Come down South. Older people will gladly have a conversation about nothing with you.
So many times I’m just trying to get away from people and they find a way to extend the conversation. Lol