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  • May 16, 2023
    babylon sherm

    Yeah you know s*** is bad when you’re coming here trying to feel some sort of connection

  • May 16, 2023

    Even just when online you just have to find people that you have something in common with. for example socialists on here have their own lil thread where they rant back forth together.

  • StanBandz

    I just get along well with people who enjoy sports, fashion, traveling and food. Like if you love either one of those things like I love em, we’ll be cool off the bat. Bonus points if you’re African lol.

    But ik for me, it’s just doing it lol. Like I’m more than capable to hold and carry a convo, but I don’t like walking up on strangers lol. Like I said, tryna do better tho.

    Literally this bro. I got friends I keep in touch with who I met in other countries and s***. I got friends I made through training in MMA, mufuckas moved to Brazil and still keep in touch.

    My modeling homies was hitting me up from Milan etc.

    Like you said it's just carrying a convo

  • May 16, 2023
    afterimage

    we’re not talking about flirting

    We’re just talking about people wanting to have a convo lol

    yea, i mean i have met people including women just randomly walking around, but its usually because of something very specific but its very rare, especially since people usually listening to music these days

  • May 16, 2023
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    Lystra

    most people dont have a lot of hobbies or interests

    an even still its so fake in that world a lot of the time, like if u make music only a few mufuckas u meet is gonna become your good friend

    Yea it's fake if everybodys tryna climb socially I suppose.

    I just have a lot of different friends due to trying new things

  • May 16, 2023

    im lonely as f*** ngl

    all my friends are either in college or other states and when i go and try and make new ones they don't hit the same

  • May 16, 2023
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    SegaDreamFlash

    Yea it's fake if everybodys tryna climb socially I suppose.

    I just have a lot of different friends due to trying new things

    i know some ppl online but tbh irl i dont know that many people who share my interests, which is just music, science/math and anime tbh

  • May 16, 2023
    celinee

    bro where do u even live

    Bay area

    that’s how you know bro lying

  • May 16, 2023
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    Lystra

    girls pretty rarely approach, theyll usually just give u a smile

    Speak for yourself

  • May 16, 2023

    F*** interacting with people, how many niggas just go OUTSIDE (besides work) yo

  • May 16, 2023
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    Idk maybe it's just me but I've had a lot of random encounters with mfs over the years lol especially being approached

  • May 16, 2023
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    Lystra

    i know some ppl online but tbh irl i dont know that many people who share my interests, which is just music, science/math and anime tbh

    Try to find people who may like one of those things. They don't have to like everything you do.

  • May 16, 2023
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    SegaDreamFlash

    Idk maybe it's just me but I've had a lot of random encounters with mfs over the years lol especially being approached

    My locs alone be getting me headnods from strangers lol

  • May 16, 2023
    soapmanwun

    There is an epidemic of loneliness in the United States and lacking connection can increase the risk for premature death to levels comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day, according to a new advisory from the U.S. Surgeon General.

    https://www.npr.org/2023/05/02/1173418268/loneliness-connection-mental-health-dementia-surgeon-general

    Here's a pdf from the Surgeon General

    https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf

    we all gotta try an be more connected with family friends join social groups online even bumble has a friends section where everyone can find friends, as much as i s*** post sometimes on here the site i am glad i get to talk with everyone on here because we all have on thing in common an its love for music

  • May 16, 2023

    being mysterious>>>

  • May 16, 2023
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    Dedication 666

    Try to find people who may like one of those things. They don't have to like everything you do.

    its not that i dont know people its that im not close with many people

    that s*** go deeper than a hobby

  • May 16, 2023
    frenchpress

  • May 16, 2023
    krishna bound

    Speak for yourself

    you got me

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  • May 16, 2023
    Lystra

  • May 16, 2023
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    Lystra

    most people dont have a lot of hobbies or interests

    an even still its so fake in that world a lot of the time, like if u make music only a few mufuckas u meet is gonna become your good friend

    You don’t need a lot of hobbies.

    Dudes base their entire personalities around video games, weed, and comic book movies and wonder why girls don’t find them interesting.

  • May 16, 2023
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    Undecided

    You don’t need a lot of hobbies.

    Dudes base their entire personalities around video games, weed, and comic book movies and wonder why girls don’t find them interesting.

    what

    girls dont give a f*** about your hobbies they just like ur energy/personality or they dont

    true for everyone actually

  • May 16, 2023
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    JaeRell

    Come down South. Older people will gladly have a conversation about nothing with you.

    So many times I’m just trying to get away from people and they find a way to extend the conversation. Lol

  • May 16, 2023

    all my friend cares about is league and pokemon and he gets all the girls

  • May 16, 2023
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    To the whole "no stranger just comes up to me to chat" convo, body language also plays a role in that. If you look and project that you don't want to be bothered, people are just naturally not gonna bothered you lol

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