Investing in real estate/building businesses, maintaining healthy relationship with myself/girl/family/friends, creating music to build a community and perform on a stage one day. Just tryna help anyone who has less than me in any way
Tryna find me a new job then have a intervention to stop chasing after hoodrats and actually chase after women that I’m compatible with
Been there
It can still come back if you find something you care about
I been here for a minute though, i had a pretty major injury in 2020 (ACL) and I've been off since. I know all I really have to do to get back on my s*** is just workout and eat better tbh. Learning to discipline myself is the hardest part cause i really just be doing whatever the hell I want.
+without knowing how to play chess
Gotta learn as you go yeah, also you don't know it's chess
Should I start my career or take another year off in a foreign country I’m 24 and already spent this year abroad doing temporary work, but it was so nice I want to do it again. At the same time I feel like I’m missing out on starting my career young and finding a long term relationship
If you’ve got the means to support yourself another year I say go for it!
24 is still super young, and for all you know you could meet your partner abroad.
Besides, when you’re old which do you think you’d value more: Having worked one more year in your career field, or having one more year of youthful memories from traveling the world?
Should I start my career or take another year off in a foreign country I’m 24 and already spent this year abroad doing temporary work, but it was so nice I want to do it again. At the same time I feel like I’m missing out on starting my career young and finding a long term relationship
trying to not kill myself until my grandpa passes away
Why so sad, just get a patatje bruh
2 more years left in the military. Trynna decide my next move. I don’t think imma stay in tho.
trying to not kill myself until my grandpa passes away
I'm sorry you're having such a hard time rn. Life can be very cruel and very tough to navigate. Sometimes its hard to see the beauty through the fog.
Feel free to ignore the rest of this if its overwhelming, just a few simple things that can help break ya out of the cycle:
Try to make little gestures to treat yourself. Stop for an ice cream or a nice baked good in the middle of an otherwise monotonous day. Eat it in one of the nicest spots in your close vicinity while just breathing and people-watching. Throw on one of your favorite songs. Smile at people and say "Good afternoon" or "Hows it going?" as they pass by. Even if you don't care, make the effort.
Take a little day trip, either with a friend or just solo. Hit a couple thrift shops, hike a viewpoint, and try a new restaurant or bar in the area.
Start a tutorial series for a new hobby you want to learn. Graphic design, woodworking, coding, music theory, playing the guitar, rebuilding a car engine, etc. There are endless resources for knowledge out there, and just making that effort to learn something new can be really uplifting.
Keep your head up, fam <3
not enough
It doesn't take much to make steady progress, fam :)
Take 15 minutes a day to learn a new skill, read a book that relates to your goals, or practice something. A little personal fulfillment goes a long way!
And never worry about 'keeping up' or silly things like that. We're all on our own personal journey!