Can’t be off a worky perky and mad about the consequences

If he rejects your help, separate from him. Especially if he can’t look out for himself IE overdosing and losing jobs. Can’t help those who don’t help themselves and I say that as a person who’s been the addict and the mentor

He is not your responsibility he’s a grown ass man who’s made every decision to get where he’s at in life. It’s normal to feel bad and want to help but dude sounds pitiful and needs to figure it out himself, in the end he’s going to do what he wants and you “helping” could just be enabling him to keep f***ing up

His life or death isn’t your responsibility as harsh as it sounds. You’re not responsible if he ultimately does the worst. You’re not responsible for his happiness. He is.

As a suicidal person myself, I always make it a point to make sure the people around me know that anything I may possibly do is on me and nobody else would ever be to blame. In hindsight that self awareness isn’t easy I’m not saying it is. But it’s very selfish to make the people in your life feel like they are trapped trying to make sure nothing happens to you.

D**** in this situation just further complicate things tbh. Once d**** are involved it’s a personal decision at that point to seek help and do better. Encouragement and friendship will only go so far in recovery. That’s something they ultimately have to decide for themselves when addiction develops.

If he’s not trying to do better it’s little you can do and it’s not worth your health trying to figure it out. You can’t force people to do better. Friendships or relationships.

I was in a somewhat similar situation. It was with a girl at my job tho. based off my experiences all i can tell you is leave that person alone. If they're not changing at all no matter what you're telling them the best thing to do is tell them what they need to do mentally, leave and let them figure s*** out.

It's difficult especially if you don't want to hurt the others feelings, but if they're effecting you negatively when you're just trying to help you gotta let them go.