But people that spend their time adulting regret not having fun in their youth & it makes them miserable
nah bro you can still have fun while adulting in your 20s
Like my accountant friend/roommate who was doing just as much d**** as me but was still handling his life s*** and now he buying homes doesn’t have to look at prices/receipts before paying for anything
or like my friends gf who was running a restaurant in her 20s while going out all the time.
it’s def possible to have fun and adult at the same damn time
I just chose to binge d**** and not care/worry tomorrow instead
I’m a late bloomer tho I can feel it
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not sure if my its my biggest regret but i should've told her that i fell in love with her
nah bro you can still have fun while adulting in your 20s
Like my accountant friend/roommate who was doing just as much d**** as me but was still handling his life s*** and now he buying homes doesn’t have to look at prices/receipts before paying for anything
or like my friends gf who was running a restaurant in her 20s while going out all the time.
it’s def possible to have fun and adult at the same damn time
I just chose to binge d**** and not care/worry tomorrow instead
Yeah balance is key its easy to get lost in one or the other sometimes Cant compare your journey to theirs, what makes them happy wont always make you happy. Gotta build your own ground
I’m a late bloomer tho I can feel it
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OFC !!! Your time is soon
having more fun than I deserved during my teens and 20s and now paying for not taking life seriously
Not telling women how I felt from the jump
Conversely: Spending too much time chasing one woman when there were way better people who wanted to be with me
Not speaking my mind enough in school. In hindsight, this prob saved me from a bunch of other s*** though
not taking more advantage of outside things to do before the pandemic.
life has been tough in isolation these days....
But people that spend their time adulting regret not having fun in their youth & it makes them miserable
yup that's where I'm at & I'm only 23 smh
But it also made me learn a lot of stuff about myself which otherwise might not have happened
At least i'm still alive so i'm thankful for that
I got a future wifey i'm super thankful for that
S***'s gonna be alright, i'll have to put up more of a fight though everyday cause i'm behind on schedual
Fear mostly but got to come to terms with that. I’m still afraid in plenty respects but i push myself and try to be more secure with myself little by little.
One time the hottest girl in school came up to me like she wanted to talk smiling an s***
I deadass looked her in the eyes then looked away
Reason why I dubbed her is she was dating this dude who she ended up marrying. I didn't wanna mess with that but I regret it cus she was BAD like 10/10
It's not like this was the first instance of her showing attraction she always stared at me while she hugged on her man's
No regrets. Only forward, never back.
can’t come to a consensus on the biggest but one that comes to mind is not cutting off certain people sooner
i would be in therapy early and taking pills for mental health just so i could be more of a demon when i found out that s*** wouldn't work
One time the hottest girl in school came up to me like she wanted to talk smiling an s***
I deadass looked her in the eyes then looked away
Reason why I dubbed her is she was dating this dude who she ended up marrying. I didn't wanna mess with that but I regret it cus she was BAD like 10/10
It's not like this was the first instance of her showing attraction she always stared at me while she hugged on her man's
honestly you prolly did the right thing.