Cottagecore tier thread tbh
Why would you want to look depressed
full rick fit in a rolls royce dawn
why I dont have it is I dont currently have millions of dollars
I can’t because I am unable to see the world without feeling the need to impress or be better than others
I have no meaning without it
hey bro this is because of low self esteem. you aren’t grounded in your own internal validation, because you don’t deem it as valuable as the validation of others. as a result you become someone you don’t like because you never fulfilled your own needs and desires. instead, you cater and curtail yourself based on your take on what will make other people like you, which might not actually be what will make them like you.
i have low self esteem as well and deal with the exact same thing you’re dealing with
there are ways to develop self esteem. there’s tons of books and even CBT workbooks that are centered around self esteem where you have to answer questions about yourself, do activities, reflect on your formative years, and really look within. the point is for you to dig until you get to the root cause. one day your misconceptions about yourself and the world will be shattered and you’ll be able to build new, healthy conceptions. be patient with yourself and don’t convince yourself that you’re stuck this way forever. you’re not
hey bro this is because of low self esteem. you aren’t grounded in your own internal validation, because you don’t deem it as valuable as the validation of others. as a result you become someone you don’t like because you never fulfilled your own needs and desires. instead, you cater and curtail yourself based on your take on what will make other people like you, which might not actually be what will make them like you.
i have low self esteem as well and deal with the exact same thing you’re dealing with
there are ways to develop self esteem. there’s tons of books and even CBT workbooks that are centered around self esteem where you have to answer questions about yourself, do activities, reflect on your formative years, and really look within. the point is for you to dig until you get to the root cause. one day your misconceptions about yourself and the world will be shattered and you’ll be able to build new, healthy conceptions. be patient with yourself and don’t convince yourself that you’re stuck this way forever. you’re not
I don’t know how to fix myself
The material works forces this on us
@op how old are you man
@op how old are you man
Old enough to know that life is meaningless and that I will never be anything special
I also don’t want kids
My dream is aesthetic is trying not to look cool just comfortable and do/wear things because I genuinely like them
OP lowkey gunning for that “sasuke uchiha in naruto first arch leave me alone but show me attention implicit attention-whorery” kinda vibe