Bri10

5y

Them sort it out with them if it's bothering you so much, just have a mature conversation on the matter, instead of being stuck in your mind

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

i did once, they said im in the wrong, but trust me im not. Im also not gonna cry about it like a little b**** and just move on.

Bri10

5y

And why did they say you're in the wrong? See
This is exactly what I'm talking about, you're framing this in a way that only really allows you to be in the right.

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

bro we been friends for 10 years. They didnt speak to me from 2015 to 2018, because i had “beef” with one of them, i was rly just drunk and said some s*** that i dont remember. I even said sorry, but they still blocked me. These were my best friends that freeze me out. 3 years not a word from them, until late 2018 when they hit me up again. I was bored af, had no other friends and s*** so i was like aight we can hang. Even tho i was mad at the way they just stopped talking to me. So we been smoking weed, partying, and having fun until late 2019. But then they stopped talking to me as much, so i started hanging out with some new people that i met, like really often, they started getting mad, and not invite me and things like that. So now we at a point where they BARELY hit me up. Like once every month or some s***. And its mostly just random snaps.

Idk what to tell you fam, this is how it is

Bri10

5y

Now that's a much better explanation than the half-assed s*** you had before.

It's really up to you on whether you can still be friends, I'm I can't tell just how rough your relationship is with them.

And why do you talk about them like they're Ultimate Blue Eyes White Dragon, s*** don't they treat in distinct ways as individuals?

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

bro we been friends for 10 years. They didnt speak to me from 2015 to 2018, because i had “beef” with one of them, i was rly just drunk and said some s*** that i dont remember. I even said sorry, but they still blocked me. These were my best friends that freeze me out. 3 years not a word from them, until late 2018 when they hit me up again. I was bored af, had no other friends and s*** so i was like aight we can hang. Even tho i was mad at the way they just stopped talking to me. So we been smoking weed, partying, and having fun until late 2019. But then they stopped talking to me as much, so i started hanging out with some new people that i met, like really often, they started getting mad, and not invite me and things like that. So now we at a point where they BARELY hit me up. Like once every month or some s***. And its mostly just random snaps.

Idk what to tell you fam, this is how it is

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

thats my problem im not 14 anymore where i make new friends everyday

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

they never invite me and s***, they hang out without me, they barely hit me up. They answer me arrogant, in getting real tired of that s***. I think its time to just say f*** them and delete them everywhere. I dead ass cant take this, all the s*** ive done out of being a good friend and they still act like this.

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

bro its like 10 years of friendship down the drain. I guess its just what it is.

beast444

5y

They're not true friends. Maybe acquaintances but not friends.

Are you still kinda close with the new group? Maybe you could find a new friend there or hang with them until you find another group that's more suitable for you.

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

im close to them they actually cool but the connection aint as deep. I can relate to most of the s*** they been through but i just dont know them that good.

BIGGWAVE

5y

I f***ing knew it
you the dude that says he speaks without thinking right?
if u noticed what i said i said u had people around that put u down so u second guess everything you do.
I hve a friend of 14 years that i distanced myself fromthey are idiots and idgaf my newer friends are better known them for like 4-6 years now.
Vibes are everything and u been picking up on they bullshit and inturn you dont think highy of yourself thats only gonna f*** with your self esteem and damage your true personality, which im sure is dope af.

beast444

5y

well, that's expected considering there's almost a decade difference between the relationships.

I'd hang with them and drop the old friends, at least for now

thesehoesaintshyt

5y

a lot of sense right here

hublots

5y

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@op don't cut them off never burn your bridges

fade away and do your own thing

SlicedBread

5y

Be your own friend.

hublots

5y

@op don't cut them off never burn your bridges

fade away and do your own thing