even though they do immature s*** as well

Atleast you have a partner

Call her out on it. Cmon man lol communicating is the only answer for this.

my nigga jody where you been

well the issue is we in a long distance relationship and alot of our problems revolve around s*** that has to do with like internet s*** i dont know how to really explain it

Oh yeah long distance is hard. Communication is the most important things for ldr. Still tell her, if she minimize your feelings while expressing yourself, call it quits.

yeah its alot of dumb s*** that has to do with her overall way she responds to when i have a issue with something we also talk alot on discord and tbh alot of the toxicity comes as a result of us being on the app sometimes lmao

I was in a ldr after high school cause my ex went away to college. It fell apart cause we lacked communication. Don’t be afraid to speak up. If she’s doing the sane thing she’s complaining about let that be known. She probably isn’t aware.

How does respond to you when you tell her things? How old is she btw?

shes 22 and she has a kid and sometimes i just be tryna tell her stuff like sometimes i feel like shell be on discord but she will take her sweet time to text me back and she said some s*** like oh i dont always have to talk to you 24 7 or some s*** like that basically making it seem like im needy

Talking to your girl on discord is crazy to me just send her some Jordan laff reacs if she expects to take your relationship in that seriously

Well have you done immature s***?

but the main thing that frustrates me is that she tried to call me immature because i was talking to her friend about whats been going on in our relationship lately cuz i didnt talk to him in a minute and she text me this morning basically saying im immature because im always spreading our business or some s*** like that and it turned into her basically saying like she said i need to grow up

I do get your frustration with that but at the same time she has a kid to tend to first. She’s not always going to text back right away. You just gotta be patient with single mothers. Idk how discord work, is it like Facebook and let you know when someone is active or the last time they were active? If you’re not for sure she’s ignoring your text, don’t trip. You don’t wanna start looking insecure cause things will go south once she feel that way.

Bro you don't go around talking about your relationship troubles in y'alls social circle that is an issue.

Do you always vent to outside people? Once or twice isn’t a big deal but if you’re always letting people know what’s going on that can be annoying. I’m like her with that, only time I’ll go to friends is if it’s something extremely serious. But that’s rare. She probably feel as if the things you’re telling people will make her look bad. I ain’t go front, she’s not really that much in the wrong. I feel like one heart to heart conversation should fix all this. None of this really bad to the point where it’s not fixable. Y’all just gotta talk.

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yeah i know that it is the wrong thing to do but sometimes she does stupid s*** but i guess she be trolling or whatever and it just irritates me at times thats the only reason i vent if i feel like she just doing some off the wall unneccesary s***

discord is like a gaming platform app for people to make group chats but people make discord servers for anything
you can see when somebody is online but shes leaves her status offline so i never know if she online or not lol

For stuff like that you keep that between y’all. I get that it’s frustrating when she does that but it’s not that deep. You gotta start letting her know what it is, it seem like you’re not aggressive enough. If she keeps trolling knowing you don’t like it, she’s not taking you seriously.

i know she just does lil petty s*** sometimes cuz she know that itll get on my nerves

she not a bad person she just sometimes doesn't know how to communicate how she feels without name calling or resorting to petty tactics to get her way

Oh yeah if you’re not for sure she’s ignoring you, don’t even bring it up. Even if you catch her I wouldn’t bring it up unless she ignoring you for like 20 minutes, but you still see she’s on social media.

i mean its like well be texting and i can tell her responses are delayed cuz she talking on apps and ill see her talking in other servers, she also doesn't talk in places i talk in tbh like if i invite her to a chat shell talk in a chat she knows im not in or not allowed in lmao