95% of my followers are either failed romantic prospects who’ll always think I’m a bum and keep me around for validation or people I don’t care about. I can’t log in nowadays without feeling like s***
why do you care so much about how other people think of you and so little about how you think about yourself
why do you care so much about how other people think of you and so little about how you think about yourself
That’s easy to say when you’re used to people f***ing with you. If you were completely alone and received as much negative feedback as I do you’d be just as broken
dam this that same dude from that last thread
in all sincerity, just stop using the app.
focus on s*** you like to do for yourself. you gotta learn how to enjoy things for yourself-- then you wont give a s*** when people give you 'negative feedback'.
tbh it takes energy to give 'negative feedback'. i feel most people cant be bothered to say anything to anyone unless its something really egregious
tbh it takes energy to give 'negative feedback'. i feel most people cant be bothered to say anything to anyone unless its something really egregious
Being ignored/invisible is the worst feedback you can get
That’s easy to say when you’re used to people f***ing with you. If you were completely alone and received as much negative feedback as I do you’d be just as broken
you prolly right, led a real privileged life. but it doesn't mean I'm not speaking at least some facts
if you're completely alone the negative feedback is coming from within. it may have been started by someone else but you continue to feed it and keep it alive. if it's from a lack of others engaging with you, that's you placing your present happiness in anothers hands in the future. it don't make no sense.
I was thinking how regurgitated and uninspiring my instagram experience has become. I never cared for interpersonal s*** and mostly used it for 'mood/inspiration', but all the reels and ads that I dont care for and how absolutely intrusive and annoying they are got me thinking of either purging my account keeping maybe 50 follows instead of my usual 300 or just using it like twice a day
That’s easy to say when you’re used to people f***ing with you. If you were completely alone and received as much negative feedback as I do you’d be just as broken
You received a lot of solid advice in the previous thread. Do you have any hobbies? You should nurture and invest energy into turning them into full-blown passions. People respect people who know what they’re talking about. And the best and most vital part is, when you become a skilled individual you have such great confidence in your own capabilities that the opinions of others mean less. Irregardless, those opinions from others for you en masse will be far more respectful and reverent.
You received a lot of solid advice in the previous thread. Do you have any hobbies? You should nurture and invest energy into turning them into full-blown passions. People respect people who know what they’re talking about. And the best and most vital part is, when you become a skilled individual you have such great confidence in your own capabilities that the opinions of others mean less. Irregardless, those opinions from others for you en masse will be far more respectful and reverent.
I have passions that no one will ever give a s*** about
uh oh he going down the loser road
and now he edited his s*** again poussay
In your other thread you said you have passions and interests including photography
Use ig to further explore those
I have passions that no one will ever give a s*** about
Why should anyone else need to be involved in you and your passions
Why should anyone else need to be involved in you and your passions
We need people