what's really holding back in life and what are you doing to resolve it?

daddy issues

My s*** job, I’m spamming applications but not even Starbucks is calling me back

With jobs like Starbucks just walk-in during a slow period and ask to speak to the gm and tell them you applied for a job there. While it may not get you a job right away, it will make you more memorable and get your application pulled first when they are looking to hire.

Confidence. Willingness to take risks for fear of failure/judgement.

FEAR

I never felt worthy.

I’ve always thought happiness was out of my league, something only special people possessed.

something I had to build, create and work for.

Rejection from a young age was damn near crippling.. no, no, nah, no, hell nah!

That’s more than just love rejection. Actual Friendship, Invitations, Inclusion.

fat
ugly
balding
no job
virgin

Unwillingness to change bad habits

Main one is eating out too much. I need to figure out a good meal prep plan and stick to it, but my lazy ass always gets too tired when I'm back home from work and I end up just getting fast food/eating out

Also, not going to the gym/running consistently

For a bit I was clinging to one person as a comfort friend when things were good they were great but when they were bad they were an horror movie. Using money to see them happy. Going out with them. Taking in their drama and daily turmoil really trying the best for them because we had been friends for many years then I recognized just like a job they were not worth it they could drop me at any moment or be tempermental with a lack of self awareness of their own faults but hyper critical of others including myself

I finally dropped them

While for a moment I was like "damn now I got to go out alone or chill with other friends" I have found peace in less plot

I think everyone should find peace in less plot or getting to create their own plot without being spammed

especially if someone doesnt respect your boundaries

becasue someone will take and take and take your soul with no respect

some friends, family and loved ones become our way of self harm

God dealt me a s***ty hand mentally.

You have to believe you can will yourself into the right hand through mental fortitude

You’re right but that’s part of it I lack willpower and energy

All starts with how you wake up and process daily. Aims how you target/reach them

Very relatable. Filled out over 500 applications this year. Not a single callback. I’m thankful to have a job even though I dislike it.

I’ve been blackballed, but I’m pivoting to other lucrative ventures. At least pursuing them so far

This has to be the worst I’ve ever seen in terms of the job market, I’ve been getting rejected every single day

@Malakas go sometime after 10am and ask for the manager (this is typically when peak ends and most managers step off the flow as the shifts are changing hands) tell them you are interested in a job and submitted an application. Find out what day they typically do admin work. Call the store on that day at the same time and remind the manager your name and ask for the progress on your application. They should schedule an interview right there. Speaking from experience as a former Starbucks manager lmao

Way too big of d***. Had all the skills for ball but s*** weighed me down so much it was taking like 3 inches off my vertical. Can barely wear shorts too, summers are brutal

Success is compounding so even if I am relatively back on track, I am still years behind where I should be

I don’t believe good things are possible.