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Reach out to your friends and family, you may be surprised

Or maybe they would be of no help I don’t know your situation at all

Kabel

3y

babies just scream all day. i'm so glad im child-free.

Lein

3y

Tried to tease my class mate bout stealing my seat and he was like "what are you talking about 🤬" man how is everybody in this major so annoying

Not Like Josuke

3y

“There more trans people than black people on our team”

• Trans person on our team at work

Lowkey it never occurred to me that I was the only black person tho

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What major is it

Not Like Josuke

3y

And also this got me thinking, cus I hadn't seen this person in a while. She also said right after saying this that everyone at our job is welcoming, when the truth is they really not. Legally we HAVE to be when we at WORK, but I've seen the talk behind closed doors and how when some of the coworkers hang out they be like "id never invite that person".

trees

3y

i don't wanna make a thread on this but i'm pretty sure that my dad is gay and this s*** has been bugging me for almost a year. he's still married to my mom and i have a 12 year old sister (and 20 y/o brother). successful guy. last year my brother was using his phone to call someone and found grindr downloaded (which should be enough). he lost 200 lbs recently and got really into the gym, so when my brother asked he said that he uses the app to see what other dudes think of his progress and he "can't use tinder bc my mom." when i was on the "dating apps" section of the app store years back i also found that grindr had been previously downloaded on our shared icloud account but never brought it up to anyone.

the following things are normal and stuff that i wouldn't think twice about if not for the grindr thing: over the last year he's gotten more and more into the gym and spends about 2.5 hours there 5x a week. he has made lots of new friends there--to the point where it's a little weird. he is f***ing obsessed with looking at shirtless dudes and commenting on their bodies. he has lots of online friendships with random dudes he met on facebook through "accountability groups." he has a private instagram which i didn't know about until it was recommended to me by the app. it's about his weight loss journey and has 600 followers. i don't think my mom knows about it. he has seemingly become less interested in my mom and gets a lot more annoyed with her over really stupid s***.

i love my dad a lot. he gave me a really good life and did the best he could in raising me considering the fact that he didn't have great parents himself. but he's also a semi-abusive narcissist who often cares more about feeling like he won than he does about other people's feelings. and i do feel responsible for looking out for my mom as well. i am scared to bring this up to him or ask him about it and do remain partially reliant on him financially (i'm in law school). my brother wouldn't press him when he asked because he's pretty timid. i'm the opposite and would probably get aggressive in asking after his attempts to shut me down. it would probably ruin our relationship. i know that i'm never gonna ask him because of that. it just sucks because i'll never really have this clarified unless he gets caught redhanded.

trees

3y

i don't wanna make a thread on this but i'm pretty sure that my dad is gay and this s*** has been bugging me for almost a year. he's still married to my mom and i have a 12 year old sister (and 20 y/o brother). successful guy. last year my brother was using his phone to call someone and found grindr downloaded (which should be enough). he lost 200 lbs recently and got really into the gym, so when my brother asked he said that he uses the app to see what other dudes think of his progress and he "can't use tinder bc my mom." when i was on the "dating apps" section of the app store years back i also found that grindr had been previously downloaded on our shared icloud account but never brought it up to anyone.

the following things are normal and stuff that i wouldn't think twice about if not for the grindr thing: over the last year he's gotten more and more into the gym and spends about 2.5 hours there 5x a week. he has made lots of new friends there--to the point where it's a little weird. he is f***ing obsessed with looking at shirtless dudes and commenting on their bodies. he has lots of online friendships with random dudes he met on facebook through "accountability groups." he has a private instagram which i didn't know about until it was recommended to me by the app. it's about his weight loss journey and has 600 followers. i don't think my mom knows about it. he has seemingly become less interested in my mom and gets a lot more annoyed with her over really stupid s***.

i love my dad a lot. he gave me a really good life and did the best he could in raising me considering the fact that he didn't have great parents himself. but he's also a semi-abusive narcissist who often cares more about feeling like he won than he does about other people's feelings. and i do feel responsible for looking out for my mom as well. i am scared to bring this up to him or ask him about it and do remain partially reliant on him financially (i'm in law school). my brother wouldn't press him when he asked because he's pretty timid. i'm the opposite and would probably get aggressive in asking after his attempts to shut me down. it would probably ruin our relationship. i know that i'm never gonna ask him because of that. it just sucks because i'll never really have this clarified unless he gets caught redhanded.