A spacious apartment or house within the city
A new car
No indigestion
Financial stability and lots of disposable income
A creative job/hustle that I have a lot of agency over
Having things to look forward to every week or day that are exciting, unpredictable and take me slightly out of my comfort zone
my parents being happy, healthy and stress free
A beautiful live in girlfriend who finds you hot and that you have great chemistry, or a stable revolving roster of 2-3 girls
A spacious apartment or house within the city
A new car
No indigestion
Financial stability and lots of disposable income
A creative job/hustle that I have a lot of agency over
Having things to look forward to every week or day that are exciting, unpredictable and take me slightly out of my comfort zone
my parents being happy, healthy and stress free
A beautiful live in girlfriend who finds you hot and that you have great chemistry, or a stable revolving roster of 2-3 girls
i would love to live in my girlfriend, that would be fun
when i was recovering from my motorcycle crash I told myself "when I can walk I'll be happy" and then I was walking hand in hand with sadness. then it was "when I can lift weights I'll be happy" and then I was getting a pump with sadness.
took me awhile to realize that one can just..be happy. separate from any external factors. its a few books I read that made me go "what the f*** am i doing suffocated by my own thoughts? how could I trick myself like this?"
i still get down sometimes but I always have an internal joy for life that swells inside me and lifts me out of the fog
Owning a home & not having to work or pay bills the rest of my life. Throw in a hot wife with a fat ass for some extra joy
A nice car, comfortable home, a kid of my own to raise into a strong and intelligent adult, and a job I enjoy with a surplus of money.
A nice car, comfortable home, a kid of my own to raise into a strong and intelligent adult, and a job I enjoy with a surplus of money.
Healthy mind and body, healthy and fulfilling relationships, the freedom to express my ideas and emotions creatively without financial concern.
Starting my own family
Good health
Being able to be creative as my primary job
Spending time with friends regularly
Financial freedom/security
Having a voice to speak and be heard
Traveling the world
Those are my major dreams and what I believe will make me happy in order of importance. I have already achieved a couple of them, and I am actively working toward all the others, so I am content with how life’s going so far
OP snuck in the live in girlfriend/harem dream right at the end of all of those reasonable and nice aspirations
OP snuck in the live in girlfriend/harem dream right at the end of all of those reasonable and nice aspirations
As if s***and companionship isn't a natural, healthy and fulfilling part of life. I feel like half of you have sexual hangups
I always wonder what happiness even is.
How do you know if you're happy? The definition of happiness is different for a lot of people.
Maybe happiness shouldn't even be the goal. I'm not happy and havent been that for around 10 years. Also havent been extremely unhappy though. But happiness is not my goal anymore. I just want to have a life that I have peace with. Maybe someday I know again what happiness is or how it feels.
Regarding what I want in life is starting a family with a nice girl, 2 kids, my own house and a job that I don't fully hate, no mental health problems and just having fun. Maybe once I get that I'll be happy.
This is a great vid on happiness btw:
As if s***and companionship isn't a natural, healthy and fulfilling part of life. I feel like half of you have sexual hangups
I’m not dogging you, I just think it’s funny