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  • May 12, 2023
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  • May 12, 2023
    internet buddy

    “Im tryna see some African heritage represent homosexuality” gotta be a joke

    ngl this is a mildly odd post

  • May 12, 2023
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    anyways i think black niggas be way more homophobic than white people are

    idk what it exactly is but it’s like a cardinal sin to be gay and black, so that would stamp out any sort of femboy representation off rip

  • May 12, 2023
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    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    anyways i think black niggas be way more homophobic than white people are

    idk what it exactly is but it’s like a cardinal sin to be gay and black, so that would stamp out any sort of femboy representation off rip

    We have a culture of hyper masculinity due to generational trauma stemming from slavery and centuries of oppression

  • May 12, 2023
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    Name

    We have a culture of hyper masculinity due to generational trauma stemming from slavery and centuries of oppression

    i also think hip-hop culture plays into that whole hyper masculinity angle too that discourages any sort of feminine nature for men just in general, it’s odd because for men in general emotions are frowned upon, but black people are expected to even be stronger than just the average white man in America just overall

    @Brave you could probably outline this more thoroughly, i’d be interested in your take(s)

  • May 12, 2023
    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    i also think hip-hop culture plays into that whole hyper masculinity angle too that discourages any sort of feminine nature for men just in general, it’s odd because for men in general emotions are frowned upon, but black people are expected to even be stronger than just the average white man in America just overall

    @Brave you could probably outline this more thoroughly, i’d be interested in your take(s)

    Hip-hop is an extension of the black experience for better or worse
    From Tupac to Youngboy to Common to Kendrick we all apart of the same struggle that stems from the same place and the culture built from it

    Genetically yeah you can say people of African descent are literally built different but that’s a discussion that can lead to things I’d rather not get into

  • May 12, 2023
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    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    i also think hip-hop culture plays into that whole hyper masculinity angle too that discourages any sort of feminine nature for men just in general, it’s odd because for men in general emotions are frowned upon, but black people are expected to even be stronger than just the average white man in America just overall

    @Brave you could probably outline this more thoroughly, i’d be interested in your take(s)

    Hip hop culture deff plays a part, Niggas took the wrong lessons from it fasho

  • May 12, 2023
    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    anyways i think black niggas be way more homophobic than white people are

    idk what it exactly is but it’s like a cardinal sin to be gay and black, so that would stamp out any sort of femboy representation off rip

    They are. It’s very uncomfortable at my job (literally everyone is black except one guy) and they are very openly homophobic.

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    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    i also think hip-hop culture plays into that whole hyper masculinity angle too that discourages any sort of feminine nature for men just in general, it’s odd because for men in general emotions are frowned upon, but black people are expected to even be stronger than just the average white man in America just overall

    @Brave you could probably outline this more thoroughly, i’d be interested in your take(s)

    It starts with the black community in the US being hardened as a result of prejudice, and when you factor in the traditionalist influence of Christianity on our moral values, the two coalesce into a fixation on hyper masculinity. Most cultures that have to “make it out the mud” are hyper masculine if you notice (you also have to factor our genetics into this when we talk about how they were twisted into the Buck stereotype from slavery that persisted into the image - and expectation of - black masculinity, along with athletics)

    Hiphop is an extension of this that also branched into its own brand of hyper masculinity. This leaves not much room for anything resembling femininity in black masculine expression. But in my outlook, I think there’s a space for us be more vulnerable and in touch with our feminine side - and that be seen as cool

  • May 12, 2023
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    Name

    We have a culture of hyper masculinity due to generational trauma stemming from slavery and centuries of oppression

    I understand that but at what point are folks just gonna understand that s*** don’t f***ing matter.
    Black families quick to s*** on someone coming out as gay but turn a blind eye to the uncle in the family that beats the s*** of his wife. Black families be shielding women beaters in they family but wanna purge anyone gay. S*** don’t make sense

    That hyper masculinity has lead to people turning a blind eye to black men who exhibit very violent behavior.

  • May 12, 2023
    Husk_

    I understand that but at what point are folks just gonna understand that s*** don’t f***ing matter.
    Black families quick to s*** on someone coming out as gay but turn a blind eye to the uncle in the family that beats the s*** of his wife. Black families be shielding women beaters in they family but wanna purge anyone gay. S*** don’t make sense

    That hyper masculinity has lead to people turning a blind eye to black men who exhibit very violent behavior.

    Things are getting better but many of us are still in poverty, still in s***ty schools still in broken homes. Until the conditions our people come from improve we won’t.

  • May 12, 2023

    Pls move thread to politics.

  • May 12, 2023
    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    anyways i think black niggas be way more homophobic than white people are

    idk what it exactly is but it’s like a cardinal sin to be gay and black, so that would stamp out any sort of femboy representation off rip

    I made an odd post yet you understood exactly what I meant

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    Hip hop culture deff plays a part, Niggas took the wrong lessons from it fasho

    Or corporations forced them to learn the wrong lessons

  • May 12, 2023
    internet buddy

    Or corporations forced them to learn the wrong lessons

    mmm that too

  • Husk_

    I understand that but at what point are folks just gonna understand that s*** don’t f***ing matter.
    Black families quick to s*** on someone coming out as gay but turn a blind eye to the uncle in the family that beats the s*** of his wife. Black families be shielding women beaters in they family but wanna purge anyone gay. S*** don’t make sense

    That hyper masculinity has lead to people turning a blind eye to black men who exhibit very violent behavior.

    u basically said "i understand that this is why things are the way they are" and then immediately followed that with "but why can't things just not be this way?"

    arguing w dude like he's the CEO of hypermasculinity lol

    im being stupid pedantic btw, express urself how u want

  • Kengi 💭
    May 13, 2023

    Op couldnt be more wrong

  • May 13, 2023
    bejewelry

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    internet buddy

    Or corporations forced them to learn the wrong lessons

    lyor cohen knows (more at . )

  • May 13, 2023
    afterimage

    everywhere tbh , if you in the right places

    Idk what @op on about. Ktt the grand hub of ethnic femboys

  • tripsix 🐍
    May 13, 2023

    tsbronx and megan snow

  • May 13, 2023
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    Move to any major city, including Atlanta you’ll find em OP

  • May 13, 2023

    This is still one of the wildest threads on this site yo @op dropped a wayne classic

  • May 13, 2023
    AvenueJones

    Move to any major city, including Atlanta you’ll find em OP

    This is also true.

    Also @edumist you right on target 🎯. Colonizers got niggas so brainwashed we think there was no such thing as homosexuality in Africa until they came (which couldnt be much farther from the truth, so many records of it in pre-colonial africa)

    The irony is the most homophobic african countries are all backed by Western missionaries.

    I love religion but some of these Christians are going to hell for what they’ve done to our people fam

  • May 13, 2023
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    AvenueJones

    Move to any major city, including Atlanta you’ll find em OP

    I live near San Francisco and i still cant find em