Oct 9, 2021
supercuteI’m vapid and vain so what lol
Yea idk how to help you. I guess you’re trying to find your brand of vanity that doesn’t repulse you to help you climb a ladder but if anything the educated wealthy people you want to fawn over you will probably see you for as vapid as you claim to be and won’t fawn over you.
if they are, it could possibly become the thing you will claim is shallow. You seem to keep making threads and posting about things you want but don’t see the value in nor understand how to achieve but want people to not joke about these things you don’t seem to really care to take seriously yourself.
I’m only typing this all cus im tryna just shoot straight but you got some contradictory desires and this one doesn’t even seem to be related to regular joys of existed. Honestly sounds like you want to use the same social dynamics that social media stars use to gain attention but something only more respectable in appearance. In substance it’d be something you’d have to work at, at least as much as some YouTubers and tiktokers do.
You could become a celebrity for celebrities sake which seems to draw a crowd.
Get the sense ur expecting us to put more effort than you apparently are (or at least are communicating) into helping you figure out how to do something you don’t seem to know if you really want. no offense- Oct 9, 2021
Pro Athletes
- Oct 9, 2021·2 repliessupercute
How do I find my gift, I need to find asap because time ha running
There are many questions you have to ask.
What are you naturally good at?
What do you gravitate towards?
How can I make what I'm naturally interested in, into a career or livable way of life.
If you believe in God, pray to show you your gift.
There are multiple career path quizzes you can take online for more assistance.Remember when you were younger or even until today, that one thing you always wanted to be/do. Outline that path from the endpoint to where you are now.
You brought up photography. You want to be a real estate photographer.
End = RE Photog
Mid = Take photos, search for opportunities (maybe start a business)
Beginning = Study, pickup architectural digest books, watch how pros develop their skillset. Practice and be patient with yourself.Learn the ins and outs of what you naturally gravitate towards and make that your life.
Enjoy the path you take, don't let others opinions weigh you down. Don't be so hard on yourself, many people only find their footings in the world around their 30s. It takes time. An orange tree doesn't even show fruit within it's first 5 years of growing. Be patient with yourself, the seeds you have within you will develop. Learn how to take care of them.
Oct 9, 2021OP is literally what I picture every zoomer to be like
- Oct 9, 2021·1 replyBestowed
There are many questions you have to ask.
What are you naturally good at?
What do you gravitate towards?
How can I make what I'm naturally interested in, into a career or livable way of life.
If you believe in God, pray to show you your gift.
There are multiple career path quizzes you can take online for more assistance.Remember when you were younger or even until today, that one thing you always wanted to be/do. Outline that path from the endpoint to where you are now.
You brought up photography. You want to be a real estate photographer.
End = RE Photog
Mid = Take photos, search for opportunities (maybe start a business)
Beginning = Study, pickup architectural digest books, watch how pros develop their skillset. Practice and be patient with yourself.Learn the ins and outs of what you naturally gravitate towards and make that your life.
Enjoy the path you take, don't let others opinions weigh you down. Don't be so hard on yourself, many people only find their footings in the world around their 30s. It takes time. An orange tree doesn't even show fruit within it's first 5 years of growing. Be patient with yourself, the seeds you have within you will develop. Learn how to take care of them.
No cap this is solid advice for people (sans the religious stuff since I’m not) but even being a real estate photographer for him is not going to get him the thing he said he wants which is “wealthy educated women” fawning over him.
It’s just some normal s*** and honestly people are going to be in awe of what they are in awe of. It’s gonna be circumstantial.
Oct 9, 2021Ninja the fortnight king
- Oct 9, 2021·2 repliesPhlegm
No cap this is solid advice for people (sans the religious stuff since I’m not) but even being a real estate photographer for him is not going to get him the thing he said he wants which is “wealthy educated women” fawning over him.
It’s just some normal s*** and honestly people are going to be in awe of what they are in awe of. It’s gonna be circumstantial.
'wealthy educated women' love photographers bro ijs lol
It's the confidence portrayed from knowing your skillset. It creates an undeniable air around you. You're always in movement and focused on that goal. Some of the richest people in this world are still tricks. They work in a place of need and not honesty.
- Oct 9, 2021·2 repliessupercute
Something bad educated wealthy women from good families will fawn over but takes low effort like a folk musician writer etc
I don’t see how you reached the conclusion that wealthy educated women are fawning over folk musicians, or that being a musician of note and pedigree is easy. Writing lyrically or the instrumentation? There’s a lot of no name artist of this category not getting fawned over
If I’m reading this closely, you want something low effort because you want people to really just be fawning over who you are inherently , but they are not and you want an occupational veneer to hide behind because u think people are attracted solely to labels (maybe because you are).
Oct 9, 2021·1 replyfirefighters
- Oct 9, 2021Phlegm
I don’t see how you reached the conclusion that wealthy educated women are fawning over folk musicians, or that being a musician of note and pedigree is easy. Writing lyrically or the instrumentation? There’s a lot of no name artist of this category not getting fawned over
If I’m reading this closely, you want something low effort because you want people to really just be fawning over who you are inherently , but they are not and you want an occupational veneer to hide behind because u think people are attracted solely to labels (maybe because you are).
low effort. yep
- Oct 9, 2021·1 replyPhlegm
I don’t see how you reached the conclusion that wealthy educated women are fawning over folk musicians, or that being a musician of note and pedigree is easy. Writing lyrically or the instrumentation? There’s a lot of no name artist of this category not getting fawned over
If I’m reading this closely, you want something low effort because you want people to really just be fawning over who you are inherently , but they are not and you want an occupational veneer to hide behind because u think people are attracted solely to labels (maybe because you are).
People are superficial I just know
- Oct 9, 2021frank 2022
firefighters
Good point
- Oct 9, 2021
When I was a kid I thought JK Rowling had the most clout in the world
- Oct 9, 2021·2 repliesBestowed
'wealthy educated women' love photographers bro ijs lol
It's the confidence portrayed from knowing your skillset. It creates an undeniable air around you. You're always in movement and focused on that goal. Some of the richest people in this world are still tricks. They work in a place of need and not honesty.
Fair enough however, the knowledge you state creates confidence and the repitió and experience required is literally antithetical to what OP said he wants (something that requires low effort). I just felt like your advice is going to be taken in vain cus it’s for someone that in any aspect is gonna have to put in some sweat equity. N op don’t seem to be about that he just wants people to sweat him
- Oct 9, 2021supercute
People are superficial I just know
You seem to know a lot about people except you keep coming to us in here asking you to help you with them cus you not getting where you want with them. And we’re all people too. So unless you know all of us better than we know ourself or u pretending, I don’t think u know as much as u state, or as u think u know, if u really thinking that much
- Oct 9, 2021
@Bestowed you still gave good advice regardless and it could help whoever else sees it 🤝
- Oct 9, 2021·1 replysupercute
Something bad educated wealthy women from good families will fawn over but takes low effort like a folk musician writer etc
folk musician will not be viewed as sexy unless they’re already sexy or successful.
you’re looking for firefighter. Get accepted, 16 weeks to train, pass a physical test, then you’re in. Even people who hate firefighters can’t go around talking about it
- Oct 9, 2021frank 2022
folk musician will not be viewed as sexy unless they’re already sexy or successful.
you’re looking for firefighter. Get accepted, 16 weeks to train, pass a physical test, then you’re in. Even people who hate firefighters can’t go around talking about it
Lmao they must be talking out here somewhere with all these thin red line flags I’m seeing 😂 but I hear u
Oct 9, 2021Ye
Oct 9, 2021You'll get more clout if you stop making threads tbh
- Oct 9, 2021Phlegm
Fair enough however, the knowledge you state creates confidence and the repitió and experience required is literally antithetical to what OP said he wants (something that requires low effort). I just felt like your advice is going to be taken in vain cus it’s for someone that in any aspect is gonna have to put in some sweat equity. N op don’t seem to be about that he just wants people to sweat him
This makes sense. The solution bro is searching is to get it fast with attention and not taking in the process. Good reads man!
- Oct 9, 2021Bestowed
There are many questions you have to ask.
What are you naturally good at?
What do you gravitate towards?
How can I make what I'm naturally interested in, into a career or livable way of life.
If you believe in God, pray to show you your gift.
There are multiple career path quizzes you can take online for more assistance.Remember when you were younger or even until today, that one thing you always wanted to be/do. Outline that path from the endpoint to where you are now.
You brought up photography. You want to be a real estate photographer.
End = RE Photog
Mid = Take photos, search for opportunities (maybe start a business)
Beginning = Study, pickup architectural digest books, watch how pros develop their skillset. Practice and be patient with yourself.Learn the ins and outs of what you naturally gravitate towards and make that your life.
Enjoy the path you take, don't let others opinions weigh you down. Don't be so hard on yourself, many people only find their footings in the world around their 30s. It takes time. An orange tree doesn't even show fruit within it's first 5 years of growing. Be patient with yourself, the seeds you have within you will develop. Learn how to take care of them.
Thanks
- Oct 9, 2021·1 replyPhlegm
Fair enough however, the knowledge you state creates confidence and the repitió and experience required is literally antithetical to what OP said he wants (something that requires low effort). I just felt like your advice is going to be taken in vain cus it’s for someone that in any aspect is gonna have to put in some sweat equity. N op don’t seem to be about that he just wants people to sweat him
I’m actually willing to work hard
- Oct 9, 2021supercute
I’m actually willing to work hard
That’s cool but you literally said you wanted something low effort. We go off what u write. If that’s the case take @Bestowed advice on career path finding and apply it. But try not factor being fawned over cus from the looks of it I’ll have u more confused
- Oct 9, 2021
D*** lord