At least be strict and have your s*** together. I’ve never understood how some Caribbeans can be whatless while also having the audacity to be strict
This s*** is getting on my nerves
bc they want you to be a success.i'm not Carribbean but i assume it's the same with majority of immigrant parents. Thry left their home country & struggled so their kids can go far in life and make a lotta money
bc they want you to be a success.i'm not Carribbean but i assume it's the same with majority of immigrant parents. Thry left their home country & struggled so their kids can go far in life and make a lotta money
Unfair to their children
every third world parent is strict, comes from strong senses of ethnic tradition and a commitment to "the American dream"
Unfair to their children
yeah I know bruh. sometimes I feel like my mom only had kids as an investment. looking back on my life I don't think she ever had interest in us beyond what she really wanted us to be. I'm trying to sort s*** out in my head & figure out if I wanna have kids or not. right now it's looking like no
bc they want you to be a success.i'm not Carribbean but i assume it's the same with majority of immigrant parents. Thry left their home country & struggled so their kids can go far in life and make a lotta money
success at the expense of mental stability and consistent comparison aint it
success at the expense of mental stability and consistent comparison aint it
you can relate?
yeah I know bruh. sometimes I feel like my mom only had kids as an investment. looking back on my life I don't think she ever had interest in us beyond what she really wanted us to be. I'm trying to sort s*** out in my head & figure out if I wanna have kids or not. right now it's looking like no
Yeah tbh im lucky my mom wasnt as bad as most immigrant parents when it comes to this, but there still always has been a disproportionate fixation on academic achievement which sometimes makes u feel like that's all they care abt