can you elaborate on what you mean by it stems from the patriarchy? any hard examples?
Well one example would be that in patriarchy a woman's role are often reduced to childbearing, housekeeping and caring for their children while men are in charge of property and are asigned the role of breadwinners.
so it's a self affirming loop in a sense, women set the standards (often unwittingly) and then men perpetuate them?
Yup and the same applies to women
Us men set the standard for them and they portray it. This is universally agreed on. The thing is people don’t also realize women did the same for us. It’s all about attracting the opposite s***
Only very recently are men and women ignoring what the desired s***wants and just doing them
Because most straight men are trying to be the type of man a woman wants, and most straight women especially good looking ones are fickle when it comes to men. If women weren’t so picky, then men wouldn’t be so insecure.
sadly a lot of women only see lgbtq men as social props to elevate their own clout
bisexual men are also put in a weird spot because your masculinity is somehow invalidated in the eyes of some women
I saw this video the other day of a bunch of women saying they rather be cheated on then learn their nigga is bisexual s*** is wild out here
Yup and the same applies to women
Us men set the standard for them and they portray it. This is universally agreed on. The thing is people don’t also realize women did the same for us. It’s all about attracting the opposite s***
Only very recently are men and women ignoring what the desired s***wants and just doing them
And surprisingly everyone’s having less s***(statistically speaking)
Women will think a nigga is gay for doing certain s*** and will make him insecure
Bi dudes get the most play 🤨 don’t put this on them
Bi dudes get the most play 🤨 don’t put this on them
They dont, most women would dump their bfs if they found out they were bi
idk man im doin me. if u think im feminine because i take the time to make myself look beautiful day in and day out, then so be it. can’t worry bout what someone else got goin on, ion even know them, and to push it further they don’t even know me
ima drink my tea n do my yoga n cook n keep a clean crib and buy flowers when i feel
don’t like it hit the door. kinda crazy we only get to live once yet live so much of our lives in fear all based on what a f*** nigga gotta say. nigga if u wanna get your nails done, or play w a easy bake oven, then do you. one day you’re going to be old and unable to do the little menial s*** that made your heart happy. and you’ll be tight as f*** realizing the only thing that kept you back was fear and opinions
idk about the entirety of this but something that relates to this was, i was in school and had some paisley bed sheets like aqua and orange color and my friend had some friends over and we came into my room for something can’t remember what and one of his lady friends made a comment about how feminine my bedsheets were. how the f*** are bed sheets feminine. they was paisley print.
See how asinine this is yet you’ve held on to it for so long
Shoulda told her dumb ass to kick some rocks. Respect yourself