I can't help buying clothes for myself all the time. I feel like it's an obsession, I feel quite inadequate and hope that buying clothes will almost change me into a new person if you know what I mean. It's like a cycle, I'll see an outfit and think thats the one, If I buy that than I'm going to feel so good about myself, so I buy it and never feel any different.

I'm using all my savings on clothes and I don't want to, I've also got store cards and it's getting out of control.

Does anyone else have this problem

You just want to feel in control of something. Start dying your hair it’s cheaper. You’ll be aight

once it time for laundry day you'll see you buying stuff you don't really need

yeah i spend far too much copping s*** i dont need. i have more of a collectors mentality than anything else. like i feel like i need XYZ from this designer and then i'll be done, but end up wanting new pieces too.

of course getting compliments on those things can make matters worse and your self esteem can get tied up in designer clothes, which is terrible.

only tips i have would be to work to establish a personal style and limit yourself to one new thing a month or something and only get things that resonate with you

also if your debt is getting out of control with store credit cards, cut them up, pay them off and buy used and only pay cash/debit in the future

Yeah, I can't even go to the grocery store without some 1s thats clean and a shirt with a team

My problem is I recently lost weight so I see I’m able to pull off things I couldn’t before and another I do is see like put together like 3 or 4 things I want and be like that’s it after this I’ll be done then after I get those pieces I see something else I wanted I didn’t want before

Using retail therapy to cure your never ending depression is key

spending addiction ten thousand on shoes

Sell the stuff u dont wear den, will make u feel better.

same op same
cept I never had a credit card in my life (I know I need to get one eventually I just keep putting if off)

This how we living