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  • Jul 18, 2020
    beast444

    all this is straight facts

    I wonder why stans enjoy arguing? Like sometimes it does get fun or funny to just argue back and forth about which fave is better. Not to the extremes like @op examples, but just the normal banter in threads can be fun to do and funny to watch

    Same way people are fight about sports, politics & anything really

    It’s human nature to engage & communicate with each other

    Not to mention it fuels our innate narcissism & ego to enforce our opinions/ideals

    People are so delusional they like to act as if idolizing music artists or music fandom culture is weird but turn around then go to bars & yell at random strangers over sports games

  • Jul 18, 2020
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    DonutHole

    @DAVIDP I always wondered if that was you in your previous avy

    (portrait photo of a white man, white blonde hair, staring eyes wide open at the lense , blue jacket)

    Nah that's not me

  • Jul 18, 2020
    DAVIDP

    I'm not even kidding, this is something I've noticed.

    Why do people do this? Why did being a "die hard fan" turn into "stanning"? and what are the reasons that this develops from someone just being a music consumer?

    Does it stem from insecurities about liking an artist?

    Few circumstances:

    • I left a few comments in a Drake thread last night (not even making fun of Drake or his music) just making quoting an avi and 3-4 different people swarm me and straight up just go all in at me calling me "reetarded" or "an loser" or "virgin"

    • in some Kanye threads I was in a few months ago someone actually posted my face into the thread that I posted in the "post pictures of yourself" thread I'm pretty sure I didn't even do anything to anger anyone either.

    • Lucki era, where one of those freaks actually called my work and almost got me fired (can't make this up).

    That unnamed user we all know would message me at midnight "fuck you, loser, cac, virgin, etc" all because I said his favorite artist sucked ass

    I mean you can't make this s*** up, are these people mentally ill? Why does someone take defending an artist THIS far? It's just music at the end of the day...

    Ya'll some sorry mfers

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    beast444

    all this is straight facts

    I wonder why stans enjoy arguing? Like sometimes it does get fun or funny to just argue back and forth about which fave is better. Not to the extremes like @op examples, but just the normal banter in threads can be fun to do and funny to watch

    Stan Twitter calls people the f word, tells people to kill themselves, has way more unfiltered toxicity than ktt imo
    They spam other people's posts with to promote their fave
    I heard about a reality tv show host that killed themselves some weeks ago (British tv) and kehlani attempted due to slander mainly on social media
    To act like its "THe SaMe ThINg as KtT" is foolish imo.

    The only similarity between ktt and Stan Twitter is that we discuss pop culture.

    This site is way more monitored plus there's a sense of community since there aren't many posters on here (in comparison to Twitter with millions)
    I don't think anyone could get away with telling someone to slit their wrist unironicaly without getting jumped virtually by other posters and eventually banned.

    Edit:doesn't mean there aren't weirdos on this site like the ones who harassed op, maybe the percentage of toxic people on Twitter is bigger due to their huge following which makes it seems like somethings wrong with their platform all together

  • Jul 18, 2020
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    DAVIDP

    Nah that's not me

    My bad then

  • Yes

  • Jul 18, 2020
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    DonutHole

    My bad then

    it's from this: asdfasdfsd.ytmnd.com
    Found this accidentally and it became my avi

  • Jul 18, 2020
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    DAVIDP

    it's from this: https://asdfasdfsd.ytmnd.com/
    Found this accidentally and it became my avi

    that legit scared me

  • Jul 18, 2020
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    DonutHole

    that legit scared me

    party2012.ytmnd.com

  • Jul 18, 2020
    zenirama

    When you would legitimately consider voting for them in a presidential election

  • Jul 18, 2020
    DAVIDP

    I'm not even kidding, this is something I've noticed.

    Why do people do this? Why did being a "die hard fan" turn into "stanning"? and what are the reasons that this develops from someone just being a music consumer?

    Does it stem from insecurities about liking an artist?

    Few circumstances:

    • I left a few comments in a Drake thread last night (not even making fun of Drake or his music) just making quoting an avi and 3-4 different people swarm me and straight up just go all in at me calling me "reetarded" or "an loser" or "virgin"

    • in some Kanye threads I was in a few months ago someone actually posted my face into the thread that I posted in the "post pictures of yourself" thread I'm pretty sure I didn't even do anything to anger anyone either.

    • Lucki era, where one of those freaks actually called my work and almost got me fired (can't make this up).

    That unnamed user we all know would message me at midnight "fuck you, loser, cac, virgin, etc" all because I said his favorite artist sucked ass

    I mean you can't make this s*** up, are these people mentally ill? Why does someone take defending an artist THIS far? It's just music at the end of the day...

    I agree with the post but don't try to act like the comment you left yesterday wasn't party pooping and mean spirited

  • Jul 18, 2020

    Its okay to be a fan or even a super fan but when liking someone starts to cloud ur judgement then its a problem

  • Jul 18, 2020
    DAVIDP

    https://party2012.ytmnd.com/

    Okay this is a kind-of a vibe
    Still keep.

  • Jul 18, 2020
    blah

    is that an anime character

  • Jul 18, 2020

    I'm a retired stan

  • Jul 18, 2020
    dawg

    it's the beginning signs of mental illness when you call you're a grown man calling yourself papis angel

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    I mean most Kanye stans don't agree with his MAGA and evangelical bs

  • Jul 18, 2020

    imo you can love an artist and their music unconditionally as much as you want to if you mind your business in the process

    but when it gets combative & aggressive to the point of the events in OP then there are bigger problems.

    Someone surely mentioned the vicariously living problem

  • Jul 18, 2020

    MK ULTRA

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    It stems from childhood

    No drake stan had a father that told them they loved them

  • Jul 18, 2020
    Tribe

    It stems from childhood

    No drake stan had a father that told them they loved them

  • Probably something to do with taking on the characteristics or persona of the artist. Then any criticism of the artist vicariously becomes a criticism of you

  • If thats the explanation, then yes it is probably a mental illness in a loose sense

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    It's a parasocial relationship as well as a vicarious experience. You get to project a friendship without the hazard of navigating an actual relationship while also deluding yourself into thinking you share enviable qualities with somebody you respect.

    Mental illness is a term I reserve for behaviors that hurt your quality of living . Plenty of sports fans do this s*** without it ever having repercussions. Every NFL dad says "we" when referring to the team. It's certainly a phenomenon. It just seems like the final stage of branding and commodification that the pseudo intimacy of the digital age facilitated. As we become more alienated from the actual people around us we find easy alternatives in media.

  • Jul 18, 2020
    DEL_245

    stan loona

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