First time it happened when i was in high school. I was arguing with a Girl she started crying and said “i love you”, i almost puked on her, i felt terrible at that moment because i really almost did that. She stopped talking to me after that.
I felt sick when another girl of mine that i dated for a while asked me if i care about her, it felt nauseous. We broke up a few weeks after that.
Do i need to go to therapy? Its my first sincere thread here.
I actually checked my stomach and im good.
I dont usually feel anything mentally, like im numb or something. Sorry if anyone thinks its a cringe thread.
Yo that’s some rockstar s*** tbh. Girl crying “I love you” & you uncontrollably vomit on her?
That’s metal af
I don’t get sick but I do cringe when people show emotion like that
What if you say I love you
I never said that to anyone really. Last time i said that was to my mother when i was 4 or 5
How was your childhood @OP
Not really good. Bullied through 8 years at school. Almost no friends. Family issues every day.
Not really good. Bullied through 8 years at school. Almost no friends. Family issues every day.
Ok yeah go to therapy
I never said that to anyone really. Last time i said that was to my mother when i was 4 or 5
Yeah I haven’t said I love you to any of family since around that age either but it definitely isn’t healthy lol
Yeah I haven’t said I love you to any of family since around that age either but it definitely isn’t healthy lol
Yeah f*** it to go a lil further. All my gf’s at one point asked me to say that (like “do you love me?” “You never said that to me”, etc) but i felt cringe and a strong disdain in me so I couldn’t. Always managed to brush it off and change the topic. One time just straight up laughed in a girls face and made her feel bad because i myself felt like i was in danger or something. It was like a little panic inside of me. I dont know. Now i feel like i wasnt good towards them. Because like... i broke up with all of them.
Hhshsshahhaa. I never cried tho!!!!
nah youre good bro totally normal. ive never felt that hard about something but i know a bunchh of people that do. they just get really overwhelmed and its ok
Yeah f*** it to go a lil further. All my gf’s at one point asked me to say that (like “do you love me?” “You never said that to me”, etc) but i felt cringe and a strong disdain in me so I couldn’t. Always managed to brush it off and change the topic. One time just straight up laughed in a girls face and made her feel bad because i myself felt like i was in danger or something. It was like a little panic inside of me. I dont know. Now i feel like i wasnt good towards them. Because like... i broke up with all of them.
You probably have a hard time connecting emotionally with your partners so maybe you never truly loved them.
You could also just be insecure and traumatized from childhood and terrified to be emotionally vulnerable.
This ain’t normal
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You're a psychopath ain't nothing wrong with it. Kevin Spacey's character in Se7en said the same thing about talking to people, he'd want to puke on them.
You lit!!
Well, the way I see it you have two choices
1. Go to therapy and confront your anxiety over intimacy in order to re-enter society as a more emotionally well-rounded individual
2. Become a supervillain