idk I'm just a chill guy

Stop texting start calling. Trust me

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I think this vibe attracts insecure people because they feel the need to fill the space and will chase.. but anyone self-aware with some level of self-esteem will see that for what it is and just not engage. There needs to be some level of reciprocation that matches what the other person feels is appropriate/respectful. With age and more experience my attitude is that, if you’re being completely genuine in your nonchalance, then you’ll eventually lock-in with a person whose expectations match your way. The people you’re “missing out on” just aren’t the right match for you

What peaks your curiosity?

that post reeks a tad of loserdom

Instead of insulting how about you explain your viewpoint?

Oh and where did I type”I hate women?” From my first post?

I don’t care to do all that. I’m bout to play some Sonic Adventure 2.

Cool, move along

You're just ugly bro

Because we just chill guys fr 💯

This

Depends on the woman

I’m the same way I think my future wife will be very extroverted. You got a gf rn?

f*** women

Nah.. but all of my exes were extroverted. Women who I were interested in that were as introverted as me never worked out or really grew into anything.

Idk OP, I’m similar to you. Not so much that I’m nonchalant, but I’m generally very busy, not a big fan of constantly texting someone, and really love my space.

The obvious answer to me is that they want more (of your) attention. Ideally, I’d like a relationship where we can live our own lives, and come together when the days end vs constant communication/ entertainment. Having someone in my face 24/7 has never felt good.

Same, never been with an introverted girl. Any reason it didn’t work out with your exes? Mine was cause of travel plus I didn’t think they were the one

He who shall not be named

You're not a big texter, so call to make plans to hang out or chill. Just show you give a s*** lol

Most were short flings when I was in college (I attended like four colleges, lol). And for at least two after college... as time went on...once it felt like I needed to become more extroverted for the relationship to continue is when we kind of called it quits.

Yup OPs at fault. This only works if they really in to you when you spend time with them which makes them crave you more. Clearly op ain't got the sauce like that

Nah im just cooked. Looking at it now, i am wrong cuz i leave out of the blue and pop up randomly either weeks or months later