also like to point out girls are looking for height, women looking for love
Lmao whatever.
I'm not even saying women are bad for liking tall men, I'm just saying not being a tall man is something that affects your life in a negative way.
A guy I worked with was about that height and I always admired how beautiful his family was. Nice wife and kid.
I think you'll be alright. Exist in a reality where that s*** doesn't matter and I guarantee it won't.
Idk how people can say "Its in your head" when they see women's overall preference for tall dudes. Yes short guys can get relationships if they apply themselves a lot but its not going to be the same as how easy it is for tall dude to do the same. You have to compensate for your height a lot, while some women and the media constantly say you're not good enough if you're not above 6 foot.
Unfortunately it's the truth, height does matter so does not being bald, handicapped, missing any body parts, etc.
It's just the hand dealt and the only realistic way to play it is just by compensating, not like shoe lifts or surgery but by making the other facets of your life as attractive as possible not only to other people but to yourself, sucks some people have to compensate more than others but there's no point in dwelling on it and if it makes you feel any better nobody is perfect like media would want you to believe
I’m 5’9 so not the tallest but have no worries about my height. The way I see it I don’t wanna be with a girl taller than me neither
You better get f***in jacked and just be a gorilla
That's the plan tbh. Luckily I have a good build for putting on muscle. Gonna get some big ass arms/shoulders/, get lean and get some tattoos.
6’0 and i still feel short
You don't realize how much of a manlet you are til you're posted up next to your 6'2/6'3+ friends bro smh
Unfortunately it's the truth, height does matter so does not being bald, handicapped, missing any body parts, etc.
It's just the hand dealt and the only realistic way to play it is just by compensating, not like shoe lifts or surgery but by making the other facets of your life as attractive as possible not only to other people but to yourself, sucks some people have to compensate more than others but there's no point in dwelling on it and if it makes you feel any better nobody is perfect like media would want you to believe
Yeah this is how I think. I make sure I got the best fits, I'm good in school and I'm an overall pretty funny and easy person to talk to. But id be lying if I felt people in general subconsciously treated me different because of my height.
It's definitely a real thing, and idk why people think you're a woman hater loser when you talk about this topic.
Lmao whatever.
I'm not even saying women are bad for liking tall men, I'm just saying not being a tall man is something that affects your life in a negative way.
bro cmon it's all good only thing is you won't be able to rock some saint laurent jeans, etc
Lmao whatever.
I'm not even saying women are bad for liking tall men, I'm just saying not being a tall man is something that affects your life in a negative way.
It's true and don't listen to people who try to tell you otherwise, but also don't go the other way and catch yourself tangled in the negative thought loops that a lot of online communities foster
It is a disadvantage that is impossible to change but you're going to be fighting a losing battle when it comes to biology and what people find attractive, luckily while height does matter it is only one of MANY things that matter so capitalize on what you do have control over like your money, fitness, personality etc.
Sounds like platitude but there really is more to this life king
Funny how my hygienist said I should’ve been taller based on my bone structure
I’m 5’7” isn’t it funny how god be playin u sometimes
Lmao it’s all about how you carry yourself. I’m 5’7 and I probably get more than anyone around me
Stop being insecure and just be blessed that you're alive and breathing.
How do I stop being insecure when I see women and the media basically pushing the message that I'm not good enough because I'm not a certain height?
I've had chicks not fwm because I was short. Yeah Yeah I can not give a f*** about what people think all I want, but I can't deny that being short has effected my social experiences/dating experiences. That isn't honest. I can't ignore the elephant in the room.
Height means very little when youre good looking. Ive seen it before and enough to say so.
90% of girls are 5'6 or shorter.
This. It’s not that deep. I used to think my height was a problem growing up. But it’s not true.
Yes, there are some women who prefer tall men but a lot don’t ultimately. Even if they have a general preference for taller men, all of that can be overcome depending on who you are and how you present yourself.
Women are typically short so you’re still taller than most women. I have dated a woman who was slightly taller than me. It wasn’t that big of a deal once I got out of my own head.
You know there are a lot of cute girls who are under 5’4” right? You’ll be fine lmao
Short dudes get b****es too bro I'm 5'8 almost 5"9 and ofc ktt knows my struggle.
I've seen shorter dudes make great outfits and with bad b****es. I'm telling you man you got it. Experiment with brands, clothes, fits, go workout and Keep shooting your shot on b****es.
This. It’s not that deep. I used to think my height was a problem growing up. But it’s not true.
Yes, there are some women who prefer tall men but a lot don’t ultimately. Even if they have a general preference for taller men, all of that can be overcome depending on who you are and how you present yourself.
Women are typically short so you’re still taller than most women. I have dated a woman who was slightly taller than me. It wasn’t that big of a deal once I got out of my own head.
I think it's just a loud minority tbh.
A guy I worked with was about that height and I always admired how beautiful his family was. Nice wife and kid.
I think you'll be alright. Exist in a reality where that s*** doesn't matter and I guarantee it won't.
Dude I live in this reality, and in this reality height matters lol. I wish we weren't judged for that s*** but we are.
It's true and don't listen to people who try to tell you otherwise, but also don't go the other way and catch yourself tangled in the negative thought loops that a lot of online communities foster
It is a disadvantage that is impossible to change but you're going to be fighting a losing battle when it comes to biology and what people find attractive, luckily while height does matter it is only one of MANY things that matter so capitalize on what you do have control over like your money, fitness, personality etc.
Sounds like platitude but there really is more to this life king
For me I think its the powerlessness of being unable to change it that really f***s with me. About the negative thought loops, I know not to be bitter asf on some loser s***, I'm not angry at women nor do I hate them or any weird s*** like that. I get p**** and I have cool female friends. I just honestly think life as a short man is f***ing trash. Wish it didn't suck as much as it does. Definitely a HUGE disadvantage socially/physically but I guess it is what it is.
You don't realize how much of a manlet you are til you're posted up next to your 6'2/6'3+ friends bro smh
s*** is insane
i can't imagine what it feels like being under 5'10
You know there are a lot of cute girls who are under 5’4” right? You’ll be fine lmao
Yeah and I get those girls sometimes, but most of the time they still want dudes taller then my height. Maybe not 6'3 but at least 5'9/5'10.
I don't have too much of a problem getting girls, I'm complaining about the way women and men treat you differently for being a short male. I'm short, not ugly.