Just a general rule that should apply regardless of gender. If you ask somebody out on a date, you should pay for it, since you are the one asking for their time. Unless they say they are fine with paying for their own portion. Buncha other things they could be doing besides going on a date and spending money. I don't know, I just look at it from a common courtesy perspective, not really a gender norm one.
"I met him at a s***party" yeah i closed the video
"I met him at a s***party" yea ok i just clicked on the video
Just a general rule that should apply regardless of gender. If you ask somebody out on a date, you should pay for it, since you are the one asking for their time. Unless they say they are fine with paying for their own portion. Buncha other things they could be doing besides going on a date and spending money. I don't know, I just look at it from a common courtesy perspective, not really a gender norm one.
No ones time is so precious that I’m gonna pay for them. If you want to come out with me you should just want to not because I’m gonna pay for s***.
No ones time is so precious that I’m gonna pay for them. If you want to come out with me you should just want to not because I’m gonna pay for s***.
Okay that's you. Here in the real world, women expect a dude to pay for the first date when they're the one who asks them out. That isn't an unusual expectation for them to have.
Okay that's you. Here in the real world, women expect a dude to pay for the first date when they're the one who asks them out. That isn't an unusual expectation for them to have.
Nah man we treating women like bros now. Too many simps out here throwing cash at women and look at how f***ed up our dating scene is. I’m not made out of money. We’re constantly seeing posts about women getting mad cuz they went on a “cheap date” or he didn’t want to pay. You ever take a girl out a couple times then she never talks to you again out of nowhere? I’m not out here to play games and waste my money. If a really good women comes my way then yeah I’ll probably pay for her s***. But I’m done going out, paying for s***, then getting ghosted.
Nah man we treating women like bros now. Too many simps out here throwing cash at women and look at how f***ed up our dating scene is. I’m not made out of money. We’re constantly seeing posts about women getting mad cuz they went on a “cheap date” or he didn’t want to pay. You ever take a girl out a couple times then she never talks to you again out of nowhere? I’m not out here to play games and waste my money. If a really good women comes my way then yeah I’ll probably pay for her s***. But I’m done going out, paying for s***, then getting ghosted.
Heal.
You can always tell when someone gets their perspective on dating almost primarily from what they see on social media and not real life experiences.
Women don't give a s*** what you spend on the date. S***, it's women in "happy" relationships with f***in bums. They care more about effort, respect, and common courtesy. I promise those three things will get you much further than spending money.