During the summer we were all hanging out having a good time then he invites his friend over. His friend is one of those dudes who instantly ruins the mood by being a d***. Instantly when he comes over he tried to hoe me and be a bully and when I wasn’t going for it he pulled a gun on me tryna be a tough guy.

The whole time my cousin didn’t say a word or try to de escalate the situation at all. When his friend saw I wasn’t scared of him he tried dapping me up. I just left the house and didn’t say a word.

When I got back to where me and my mom were staying I told her what happened and then the whole family found out. The next day we all went to my nanas house (my great aunt, cousins grandma) and he came over as well. When he came in the house he tried dapping me up and everyone was just staring at him. He then went to one of the rooms in the back off the house and his grandma told us all to go stand on the porch.

She then proceeded to interrogate and cuss this dude out so bad and so loud that we could hear her from outside. When she was dude he left the house through the back door so none of the rest of the family could see him leaving.

The thing that pissed me off so much about the situation isn’t that he didn’t say anything while it was happening, that pissed me off but I can understand we’re kids and that can be a scary situation but more so that he had the audacity to lie to his own grandmother and then couldn’t even look me or the rest of the family in the face.

So am I wrong?

If you WHAT

????

I now realize u mean beat but u left that word out and i thought u was asking if u could eat your cousin ass

Typo just read the op my bad 🥲

Thought the title was gonna say ate, after reading the thread it should say beat.

OP is asking if he should beat his cousin's ass since his cousin's friend pulled a gun on him.

I type fast so sometimes I’ll skip whole words in my sentences I apologize

How old are y'all?

I understand the frustration but I'd just leave it until he tries to make it right

I normally would troll and tell u to beat his ass but maybe hes intimidated by this friend of his and didnt have the courage to help you?

Still not cool but beating his ass wouldnt help if thats the case imo

But if thats not the case and he was just cool w that then yea whoop his ass and cut him off

17 when this happened and he and his friend are 19

your cousin sound like a pusc no offense

it’d be kinda petty to fight him now tho, just don’t fw him unless he fix that ^

It’s not as much about him not saying anything more so trying to lie to his own granny then not even be man enough to walk past us.

My other great aunt started crying and almost had a breakdown and told me that if anything had happened to me she probably would’ve killed herself so I can’t respect him at all don’t consider him family anymore

i thought op was gonna be the same guy who posted about his cousin stranded in the middle of nowhere

He’s dead to me idc what you call him

Ur cousin a b**** but why’d you have to blast him to the family

Nah run his s*** he a b****

Anything could’ve happened to me or him that night. He a b**** ass nigga but I still care enough to not wanna see him f*** his life up because he’s hanging with crash dummies

That’s a fair perspective

Oh word just leave him be then tbh

Cut ties for a while

Pulling a gun on a nigga when you don’t plan to use it is bozo move. You could probably take it from him next time you see him and tuck him in for his nap tbh

But I guess you could eat his ass too?

An eat and beat perhaps? Not too sure how that would go over

I’ve known his friend forever he’s a football player he’s not in the streets AT ALL! My momma could prolly take that gun and beat his ass with it