Went on a date with a single mother off Tinder in 2016 and I had no idea that she was one until we got back to her apartment and little buddy was there eating Goldfish Crackers and watching videos on his iPad by himself.
Never texted her again.
Very limited in terms of events you can go to
Zero privacy at night
Their ex will always be in the picture
You always come second
Oof yeah. That's a LOT to deal with
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how was that?
yea lol
it was actually v nice, we had a picnic at a park/playground and it was very lovely
she ended up ghosting me for a few months because she got pregnant again by some other nigga tho so I cut it off
yea lol
it was actually v nice, we had a picnic at a park/playground and it was very lovely
she ended up ghosting me for a few months because she got pregnant again by some other nigga tho so I cut it off
Dodged a bullet there tbh
Oof yeah. That's a LOT to deal with
Most emotionally exhausting relationship I’ve ever been in and I’ve had some pretty toxic ones but this one has been the most difficult overall
Once went on a date with a single mom and her daughter FaceTimed her in the middle of it. It was the first date so kinda awkward
loose p****
my friend's brother (one of the biggest cucks i've ever met in my life tbh) dated one in her mid 20s in his late 20s and she was one of the craziest people i've ever known in my life.
there were two potential fathers and she didn't bother to figure out who's it was (the dads both think it's their's).
while she and my friend's brother were around 6 months into a relationship, she told both of her exes that he was being a creep to her and her son and both of them showed up at his house (separately) and threatened to kill him if he didn't f*** off and leave her alone
she was basically just dating other men to get attention from her two potential baby dads (both of whom she was not over), and also get attention from other men she was pursuing
she and her friends (many of them also young single moms) were also just generally f***ing insane throughout the relationship (the usual crazy immature girlfriend stuff like lying, cheating, abuse, gaslighting etc.) and to this day, i pray that her son is taken away from her because she is not fit to be a mother in any way
it traumatised him so bad that, as far as i know, he hasn't been in a relationship since (and this was like back in 2015ish)
nah, I don’t wanna become anyone’s stepdad. I saw what having a fake father can do to a child
i have a couple times, it was cool but then again the women i dated were good mothers, some of these stores itt kinda crazy
i have a couple times, it was cool but then again the women i dated were good mothers, some of these stores itt kinda crazy
it's ktt so you're gonna get a bunch of trauma based/dysfunctional stories with nothing positive
Nope. She used him against me in a weird way and tried to make me responsible for him
People make the mistake and confuse single mother with just a thick woman over 30. It's important to understand that you can have one without the other. Choose wisely.
99% no
Nope. She used him against me in a weird way and tried to make me responsible for him
She was f***ing crazy and I tried breaking up with her so many times but due to my criminal past I couldn’t call police bc they would favor her anyway and would probably end up taking my house bc f*** texas. And she threatened to call police on me many times and get me locked up. She ended up shooting me in the elbow from behind and she f***ed my car up ended up losing my house, my car, and my job meanwhile she still has everything and got a slap on the wrist. I’m still not recovered from the situation
Yes I would but you have to take in accountability that you have to be in the kids life too. That is a hard task for a man to do when the kid isn't yours. If you fall in love with the woman you also have to care for the child like it's your own.
That part, if you not finna step up and be a step dad please steer clear of the single moms. Currently in a relationship w a chick who is jobless and has a disabled kid coming home soon (if she can get her life together).
Wish I never got this deep into the s***. Cuz I feel like all her problems just fell on my lap while she lies around and does nothing about it. Gonna have to call it quits eventually.