Would you make massive changes to your vibe / aesthetic if somebody who’s opinion mattered to you was able to convince you that who you were in that regard was corny , shallow , made you a loser , or anything like that ?

Is @op shallow, corny or a loser?

Let’s have ktt decide

Only if it’s genuine. I have an art mentor that I respect and look up to and have for a decade. When he makes suggestions, I listen because I always wanted to accomplish the things he has accomplished. It’s not so much im changing it for him, but he’s helping me become who I always wanted to be. But generally speaking no, I am myself and am not changing for somebody. Everything in life is a balance.

I didn’t understand this reply

I'm an adult

vibe - possibly but more detail necessary
aesthetic - f*** no

No

no

If you getting no p**** and someone who gets p**** tells you to change you should change

no they need to mind their own business

Wut

Yes

Nah

I'm the type of nigga to tell someone if u gonna rob me u gotta shoot me first

I rly dont care

Said no one ever

no that's d***riding

Depends on what you mean by "vibe" . if someone I respected/cared about said I was moving weird then I would try to self reflect a little to at least see where they're coming from.

"Aesthetic" is a non-starter

no

life is way more important than objects

yea the thing is ig is deep down i still battle with them self harm type of thoughts

wishing you the best. One of the hardest battles on Earth.

preciate it frfr, it is tough

I dress nice so that would happen

I've changed my "vibes" if someone was questioning my sobriety (which on one hand maybe doing too much, on the other it's typically only the people who know about my history with d*** abuse who call me out, so I often refelct on how I've been acting that would give off that vibe)

Aesthetic, ehh only if like a Muslim elder said something about my appearance (I dress like a skater/rock a nose ring I got before converting)

I feel like i dnt got an aesthetic mayb i do but i dont know it