went on a date last night with a girl from hinge. she looked cute in the photos. She talked about wanting to be a lawyer, she liked to surf, she works out at the gym. all this s***. I figured she takes care of herself, shes athletic, smart. She's probably a quality girl

well she shows up at this bar we were meeting at and she's like 180lbs at least, way heavier than she looked in the photos and not attractive at all. top things off, she walked with a limp cuz this b**** fell down at work (she's a server) and broke her leg. Who the f*** does that? sounds like some s*** that happens to an 80 year old. I could not have been less attracted to her but I felt it would to be too rude and awkward to just immediately bail, so i had a few drinks with her.

At one point we went out for a cigarette and these guys were talking about no fap. then she chimed in that if men stopped watching p***, they would lower their standards and have s***with less attractive women. I rolled my eyes but didn't say anything

then later on she referred to me as "her boyfriend of 8 years" to some people. i guess as a stupid inside joke she thought was funny, but i was so embarrassed. btich i would never f*** a whale like you let alone stay with you for 8 years. Jesus.

Don't know why girls do this s*** man. if you're fat as f***, don't hide it on dating apps cuz it just makes for a horrible first date...

lame of her but the fatphobia is lame too

what is fatphobia exactly?

im a bad person for not being attracted to fat women?

btich i would never f*** a whale like you

needlessly cruel way of referring to someone you aren’t attracted to. u clearly got issues

whales need love to

Yeah, most girls I meet are like twice the size as their pictures suggest

i mean, she kinda f***ing wasted my time by causing this whole situation but go off i guess

also never said it to her face because that would be too mean. but if you are really sensitive about being fat, just literally diet and excercize. it works the same for everyone. i have no sympathy for it

imagine going on a date with a girl without seeing body pics first

only face pics on dating app = whale

also if you live in NA don't you have to expect that a girl is most likely going to be obese?

also no pics of girl?

did i not say “lame of her”

i just don’t like when people dehumanize anyone based on their body

same goes for people making comments about men’s bodies

she had body pics that were misleading and probably quite old i assume

i deleted hinge so i don't have the pics anymore sorry

like 6 years ago i went on this tinder date with a girl who was doing the angles trick to hide that she was fat

idk remember the date really but i do remember i was leaving i said dont die in traffic or something instead of just saying bye

should just have walked out of bar as soon as you saw her srs

i could not bring myself to do that. felt like it would have been too awkward. if you could do it, that's pretty impressive