Majin GoldenChild

3y

Tru

That’s also why covid blew up during the holidays out here

CLB BMO

3y

Take that bro what

Soo Diff

3y

Live with the couple that's a lot of money youre going to be saving that's a lot of disposable income or savings. If it doesn't work out you can always leave.

CLB Wineboy

3y

Ight so the couple is close with my ex. I don’t got beef with my ex but my new b**** do lol

SERENITY

3y

i feel like i finagled the game perfectly

graduated a year early and got a job right away

saved 10k in a year living with my parents

used that money to move across the country to chase my dreams and lived w fellow creatives while i found another job

now im in the perfect spot to move out on my own professionally, socially, financially and still able to chase my dreams

Bo Ceephus

3y

I moved in with her at 24. We had been together for years and I was getting ready for my last year at college. She wasn't in a good situation and I was tryna get her out there and in a good one. We found the best apartment I could ever get at my price range and she wanted to split everything 50/50 and besides one month where I paid everything it has been like that for nearly 2 years.

It was a hell of an adjustment period I'm not gonna lie, s*** was rough getting used to each other for the first 2 months. But we love each other and so we decided we either had to compromise or breakup. We love each other enough that we quit some of our selfish tendencies and adapted and now we're very happy. We gave alot of little spats but we barely have big arguments anymore. 99% of our issues are resolved the same day. If you love each other enough, you make it work.

But breh those first 2 months were really really rough on me fam. If I asked ktt they would told me to bail I already know. But I'm glad I stuck it out. First 2 months were really bad. First year had ups and downs but we got through it. Ever since we hit the one year mark we've been like damn near perfect.

That's my assessment. Every relationship
is different and ya might have to do different things than we did. You might learn you shouldn't even be together. It depends man. It's hard to give alot of advice because each situation different. My best advice is learn to compromise and adapt and try to be alot less selfish cuz you and her are in it together after that. It's the last stage before you have a kid or get married so this is the stage you find out if it's gonna work out or not. Wear a condom and give it a full year and then right before the lease is up, truly reflect with an outside perspective if you really want this girl, and all her problems and headaches and beauty and amazing moments forever.

clueless

3y

damn this is beautiful
glad it's working out for you

SERENITY

3y

i feel like i finagled the game perfectly

graduated a year early and got a job right away

saved 10k in a year living with my parents

used that money to move across the country to chase my dreams and lived w fellow creatives while i found another job

now im in the perfect spot to move out on my own professionally, socially, financially and still able to chase my dreams

LIL INTRO VERT

3y

One of my roommates is a dude that i used to consider a good friend, but it all changed after we started living together. He's a good guy, even let me crash on his couch last summer when i had nowhere to go.
The problem is that he spends all of his money on bullshit like uber eats, weed, clothes, paying for the gym and etc, he spends his money on all sorts of things except food, then he always runs out of food by the middle of the month and i have to share the very little that i have with him (keep in mind that he gets A LOT more money from his parents than i do). I wouldn't mind sharing if he was legit going through tough times but that ain't the case, the dude is just irresponsible.
He spends his money fooling around and then i have to spend the rest of the month feeding him even tho i'm the poorer one. I would also like to go to the gym and buy new clothes and all that stuff but i don't cuz i know that if i did i would have no money to eat.
Do y'all think i'm being selfish?

JDC

3y

that's not selfish at all, not sure what your roommate is on lmao. such an irresponsible way to live and he won't learn anything if you keep bailing him out. nothing wrong with showing kindness and helping him out, but he shouldn't be relying on you for food

LIL INTRO VERT

3y

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He doesn't rely on me, he relies on our group of friends. He beggs us for food everyday but then he will tell me about his upcoming trip to Mozambique (a trip he is paying with his own money, the money he can't buy food with) smh
I just feel bad sometimes for refusing to help him, but i know that if i do he will drag us both down

LIL INTRO VERT

3y

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He doesn't rely on me, he relies on our group of friends. He beggs us for food everyday but then he will tell me about his upcoming trip to Mozambique (a trip he is paying with his own money, the money he can't buy food with) smh
I just feel bad sometimes for refusing to help him, but i know that if i do he will drag us both down

m FREE PALESTINE x

3y

living w family is ass bro theres just no other way to put it

NiceLikeChrist

3y

Nothing wrong with living with your parents and stacking up. Most of my friends still live at home and they’re all 25+ years old

Only reason to move out would be if you wanna start your own family or wanna move in with your gf/wife

MiniVan

3y

alone its boring