I like to think I'm pretty progressive but I ain't tryna normalize everything. De-stigmatize? Maybe.
It's one thing to respect and old partner that they've been friends with far longer. That's grandfathering someone in, even though you have priority as the partner respect the bonds that make up their life.
But the concept of having the man who raw dogged you hanging around in your new relationship don't sit right- if you really cared for your partner enough how would you have the emotional capacity to keep that relationship alive? Your partner should be the one you thinking about and laughing with.
Some folks don't really understand that if someone wants to f*** you, they ain't really your friend
Ehh it depends. I only got 1 ex I’m cool with, we basically “best friends” at this stage of our lives so it’s whatever. If y’all ended badly or still got feelings for one another I can see where it’ll be a mistake.
Marrying a foreign chick from a conservative country whos never had bfs >
bizarre. no
Marrying a foreign chick from a conservative country whos never had bfs >
Hell no Wtf we gotta stop letting people trying to normalize irrational s***. It comes off as disrespectful at best to your SO
kinda odd to me
personally wouldn't do it nor would I still feel close like that with any of my exes to be inviting them to my wedding
Some mfers f*** their friends too so what then
Then y'all ain't friends
If you partake in that, recognize that that's an alternative lifestyle and most straight people aren't gonna be on that vibe
i’m expecting one of insertcoolnamehere, plants, or one of the s with that spiderman avy to justify it
ive repaired my relationship with both my exes and were friends now no girl yet but i wouldnt mind inviting them even if my fiance opposed it
Then y'all ain't friends
If you partake in that, recognize that that's an alternative lifestyle and most straight people aren't gonna be on that vibe
Ok but it could be years ago & like your best best friend tho, one time thing
Ok but it could be years ago & like your best best friend tho, one time thing
Then that's an extra no.
Friends don't really f***. Adult friends at least. Younger folks that can't compartmentalize emotions, I understand.
If you're a woman and you can't make male friends without the thread of them getting some cheeks then y'all ain't friends.
If you can't be friends with a woman unless there's the capacity for y'all to smash, you ain't s***, and y'all were never friends bro.
If your partner is uncomfortable with that situation and you try to force it like... Do you really respect that partner?
But if it was years ago sometimes the grandfather rule applies.
one of my exes actually brazenly and insanely enough used to say s*** like “i expect to be at your wedding even if i’m not wearing white” and i always marveled at just how hilarious that train of thinking was