my d*** too big

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aight so i have a homegirl that i'm really cool with and i love her very much, i'm supposed to be staying with her for a week but she has told me straight up that she doesn't want to do anything sexual
i literally got no problem with it at all, im cool with just kicking it with her, so i told her "aight cool, i respect that. imma just sleep on the floor then" and now she's upset because she wanted to cuddle, sleep together and get kissed goodmorning??
i understand being sexual and those things are different, but i feel like they border close enough to one another that i'd prefer to just avoid it altogether to avoid confusion. am i bugging or nah

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