I was chilling with an old friend from college we got to talking and he was telling me some s*** about how it’s unfair for men to date if they don’t have high status, how dating apps are unfair for guys (kinda true but it’s not really something to get mad about, it’s a phone app lol), he said some s*** about understanding Andrew Tate, some s*** about his ex from like 6 years ago getting married and how she’s not ready too

I asked him if he’s talking to anyone and he said there’s this one girl he piped after she graduated high school. Call her Angela. My friend and I both were in college when they f***ed, which makes me think Angela was still in high school. Anyway, they’d been talking recently after she broke up with her bf and she was tryna link with him, and I told him that’s a green light, but he friendzoned himself. She has a new bf now and he’s like “Yeah I’ll still be there for you even tho you have a bf.” He still likes her btw.

Lives at home, has no real job, not in school. He’s kind of a neet

Is my guy an loser or just going through some things and bad at dating?

Inspired by the fresh and fit thread

If he’s quoting Tate you’ve got your answer

"loser"

"there’s this one girl he piped"

Broooo I’ve seen him on some hate women s*** and also try to get to women

I feel like he’s one rejection away from buying an Andrew Tate course

I still have contact to an old highschool friend and I am not sure if he is an loser or Mob from Mob psycho

Tell him to sign up for the army

He need employment and to move out mothers house

wow did he really just say he understood some s*** andrew tate says? call the cops!

So? Help him out. Making a thread about someone who's struggling socially isn't the right thing to do. Invite him to places, give him some tips on how to be a fly person.

man u cant be an loser if u wan 2 excel

loser army grows stronger each day

It sounds like your friend is going through a complex situation, and it's hard to definitively label him as one thing or another. The feelings he's expressing about dating apps and his overall outlook on relationships might indicate some frustration and confusion. However, it doesn't necessarily mean he's an "loser" (involuntary celibate), as that term often carries specific ideological connotations.

He might just be struggling with dating and figuring out his path in life. It's common for people to feel lost or to struggle with relationships at various points, especially if other aspects of life are not going well (like job or school). Your friend may benefit from some professional counseling or support to work through these feelings.

It's great that you're concerned about him, and it might be helpful to continue being a supportive friend, encouraging him to explore his interests, develop his career or education, and possibly seek professional help if these feelings persist or worsen.

I don’t think f***ing once makes u automatically not an loser

Ai?

I have. Bro doesn’t think he can. How do I boost his self esteem?

Force him to.

he said some s*** about understanding Andrew Tate

Stopped reading here, yes he's an loser

No, men shouldn't date

I done dated…

op reads like faux empathy. if your "friend" is real i dont think you care about him at all

You need to shave your head.......IMMEDIATELY

I think he’s just going through some things and is bad at dating (there is definitely a lil potential that he becomes an loser tho depending on his environment)

@op

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