idk about biggest but one thats been on my mind a lot lately: "I don't think I believe in deep down. I kinda think that all you are is just the things that you do." - from bojack
it doesn't matter if i have good intentions or think i'm a good person deep down when my actions consistently hurt the people around me

i just wanna be successful.

That I can be a disingenuous person and still be rejected/not liked by other people

I would rather choose to be myself and be appreciated for what I truly am rather than not being fully honest

I was not magnificent